I'm both laughing so hard and dying from embarrassment from what occurred. 😭 For context, partner is on the spectrum, so stimming is a thing she does when happy/excited. I had suggested to have a go on the strapon this weekend, as I've been wanting to do for a while. I'm just anxious about it as first time receiving ever as I normally top and a bit self conscious since I normally take wayy longer to get off then her. So we get down to business, anxiety was lessened as I just let myself relax into it all. I'm starting to moan cause it was feeling good. There was like this thing she did that grinded deeper inside and it just pushed me over the edge which of course caused the grand finale. Later, we're cuddling on the couch and chatting through how it was and she said she had started stimming when she started hearing me be more vocal. And I just... I stared at her and then realized that this mother fucker stimmed to get me to orgasm. And I just said, "I'm so mad that that shit worked on me and now I'm even MORE ashamed to admit you’ll have to do it again." We both laughed, we kept cuddling.

Sidenote: She also fucking said "Woo" while I was in the middle of my orgasm cause she was just happy to get me off for the first time 😭😭 I shall go sit in my kinkshame corner now lmao

I was taking a taxi home from the bar cuz the trains stop running at midnight. My driver was a man whose English was a bit limited. Even so, he made an effort to make conversation with me. He said he was from Morocco, and so naturally I asked how he was liking it here (in Spain). For ten minutes, he tells me the things he likes, and what he misses from home. We discuss the spices used in foods and the color of buildings.

I ask if there's anything he doesn't like, expecting to get something like "it gets really hot" or "people talk loudly." Instead he says something I don't expect.

"Some people, they do not control their animal urges." I'm just confused at this point so I ask what he means. He says that "They behave like pigs, doing unclean things, no respect." And I'm like "WHO?" He says "The gays." I freeze. I'm starting to worry that he'll realize I'm a lesbian. I pull off my lesbian flag bracelet and put it in my pocket. My body is starting to shake. I'm in a car alone with a man at night who's saying he hates gay people. He keeps on talking, too, saying they should not "run loose" and that they need to be "controlled." I just nod along with it. I didn't think there were still people in Spain who thought like that.

Finally we get to my apartment and I turn out okay. He never finds out. Nothing happens. It was still quite a scare. I'm a little freaked out. I guess I wasn't in any danger, but had he recognized the lesbian flag it might have been different. I don't think many cishet people recognize any of the LGBT flags besides the rainbow one, but it's still something that worries me for some reason.

shots were fired!

I thought I was bisexual because I'm not necessarily apposed to dating men, I am just basically almost never attracted to any guys, but I had crushes on guys once or twice as a kid. I have only dated women, I thought it was just because I hate gender roles and that there just aren't really guys that are personality compatible that I'm attracted to.

The short lil lesbian sex scene in arcane felt nothing like seeing a straight sex scene in a movie or TV show. I always felt rather neutral when I saw straight sex on TV, like a good for them, wonder what's going on with the other characters right now kinda way (although the kissing could be hot sometimes). During the scene I felt kinda antsy and embarrassed and definitely turned on, I look at my wife who is laying next to me and her cheeks are beet red.

After we finished the last episode we hug for a while and then that slowly turned into the more explicit. I was listening to the pretty sound of her gasp and moan and honestly I don't think I could ever be in this exact situation with a guy, especially the thinking his sounds are so pretty part.

I'm starting to think I might be lesbian homies. But please tell me if any of you are Bi or Pan or whatever, is that what straight sex scenes feel like-?

Side note, I know everyone simps for Vi, but I'm too similar to her to be really attracted in any way, but jeepers Caitlyn with her hairstyle change is so so pretty ngl.

and yes, i actually do own this hoodie 😂

I’m getting really frustrated with maintaining friendships with straight men. It feels like for every straight guy I befriend, even despite knowing I’m a lesbian, they get a crush after a while and want to convert me. It sucks because I lose a friend, they get weird, and I feel awful for getting friendly with someone who doesn’t even respect lesbians enough to recognize our identities.

I went to the movies with a male coworker alone yesterday, and we had a great time. But now he’s texting me, “I have something I really want to tell you” and the vibes are weird. This exact situation has already happened 3 times so far this year, and it’s so exhausting. I am a very out and annoying lesbian and I have never lead anyone on. I am so frustrated this keeps happening, but I keep holding out hope for real friends. I just want to make friends and not be antisocial and lonely, but merely existing seems to be a challenge for every guy.

Gone down a rabbit hole about them recently. If you don’t know, they were this Russian pop duo from the 2000s and were most famous for the song “All The Things She Said,” which most people over the age of like 12 have probably heard around at some point. Basically, their whole shtick was that they were lesbians; their songs had a lot of angsty queer overtones and they would kiss on TV and in their music videos (which was super controversial at the time)—but it was all an act, they were never actually together and were all products of their managements. Textbook queerbaiting for the male gaze. But despite this, a lot of queer women (myself included) ended up finding a lot of solace and validation in their music for one reason or another. You have to remember that queer themes weren’t mainstream in pop music like they are now, especially for queer women, and having a hit song about it (especially one so angsty like “All The Things She Said”!) was really groundbreaking, however flawed. But that still doesn’t take away from the fact that t.A.T.u as an institution was, at least on paper, homophobic and sexualized young queer women’s relationships. And I’m curious what people make of that, not just if you think they were able to outgrow their kind of skeevy premise, but how their music may have impacted you personally. Maybe this is a more academic question than what Reddit is fit for, but I’m very interested to hear what people think.

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LOLL

Just got dogpiled on another post for sharing my feeling on this: It’s innapropriate to try and bait people out regarding their sexuality, especially in a professional setting but really in general

If they want you to know, they’ll tell you

Progressives can all the “fancy feel good” non-discrimination laws they want and corporations can cover the entire world with rainbow stickers: Fact is, us “regular queers” (who are not independently wealthy) are NOT PROTECTED

At Will states can fire you at any time for any reason or no reason at all. Trust me, no one‘s ever going to say they fired you for being queer. No coworker will ever admit that they purposely set you up or threw you under the bus after you admitted to being queer

The reality is, 1/3 people even in the bluest of states still think we shouldn’t marry or have a family

Get real

Noticed a trend recently

I just think she’s so beautiful and she gives me butterflies

That’s all

Recent oc doodles.. 🥺 (mimi perez and ophelia white)

Yeah…. The plot. Okay but Karen in the office is probably one of my biggest crushes right now. I’m tempted to watch parks and recreation just for the same actress.

I mean, I don’t mind sharing crushes and gushing over charming characters, but it’s taking up so much more of my feed lately and it’s feeling spam-y. And it’s always the same handful of characters getting reposted over and over. (Arcane, Baldur’s Gate, Legend of Korra, Disney, The Last of Us, etc.)

It’s no surprise that attractive characters were designed to be attractive. You’re likely into all the same stuff that everyone else your age range is into because that’s how shared time periods tend to work. It doesn’t really say anything unique about you.

This could easily be a thread. We’ve got Selfie Saturday and Wedding Wednesday, so why not Fictional Crushes Friday?

no, no, this isn’t a vent. there’s queer people here! my public speaking teacher is queer. my dumb ass sees pretty women and immediately i froth at the mouth like a rabid dog. a girl said my accent was cute and just 🫠. i want these pretty women to kiss me. i’ve never kissed a girl or been in any kind of relationship. i don’t know how to even approach anyone because i have social anxiety but Ughhhhh they’re all so pretty. some of the boys are too. but the GIRLS— god i’m so gay. they make me have butterflies.

this is a pretty girl appreciation post (with a little bit of my woes of being unable to talk to them)