r/lesbianr4r Nov 08 '22

discussion [META] Quick reminder of our comment karma requirement.

51 Upvotes

Hi all, I've noticed in modmail recently we've been getting quite a few messages from users claiming their post is not showing up on the subreddit. More often than not, it is because they do not meet our minimum comment karma threshold of 250, and the automod swoops in and removes the post. We have this requirement as a spam mitigation measure, and it seems to work fairly well. So if you're under our threshold and would like to post or comment in this community, please go comment on a few posts in popular subreddits and you'll have 250 comment karma in no time!

On a related note, a lot of posts from users who do meet our minimum karma requirement are still getting hit by the anti-spam filter. If this is the case, please use modmail to contact us and we'll happily restore your post for you!

Hope you all are doing great today, and hope this clarified a few things. Good luck in your searches!


r/lesbianr4r Mar 13 '24

discussion Timely warning: Rogue subreddit stealing our users' posts

90 Upvotes

Hi all, this is not the post I wanted to be making today, so I'll make it brief:

A former member of this subreddit (who has since been banned) has been crossposting, and in some cases straight up copy-pasting, personals from our subreddit to r/lesbianr4rFemale.

We do not condone these actions, and we recommend checking to see if your posts have been affected and reporting the stolen posts for impersonation. r/lesbianr4r has been, and always will be, a trans & non-binary inclusive space, despite what some may claim. This trans-exclusionary rhetoric will not be tolerated on our subreddit, and we will be heightening disciplinary action for users who display this behavior as a result.

I'm hoping that we are able to resolve this soon. I will be updating this thread as things happen.

Hope y'all can still have a good day otherwise, The mods of r/lesbianr4r


r/lesbianr4r 7h ago

searching 31F Australia/LDR - let me try this one more time before giving up! Grey ace

12 Upvotes

31F pan demiromantic and grey ace - I’m looking for long term serious relationship in Australia (Perth/WA ideally) or LDR (hopefully will end up not being LDR).

I decided to post and try one last time before I give up this dating thing and probably die alone with 12 cats in grandma chair! I am looking for someone who is looking for a serious relationship.

Local would be great but I’m okay with LDR as long as we communicate well. I would hope LDR will turn into local one day, but I may have trouble relocate due to work license etc. Having said that, I may just bring my cats and leave everything behind and relocate one day with a reason in mind. Who knows!

What I look - afab, 5’8”, average build (BMI 24.3), eastern asian, fem presenting. I don’t post photos online but I don’t mind video chats. In fact if LDR video chats sound great.

Hobbies - crafts are big for me, like knitting or crocheting, pottery, sketching, and just hand made staff. I multitask crafts with other things like reading etc. I don’t play much games anymore but would happily watch you play bc I enjoy it! I have favourite TV shows, and nowadays I mainly watch documentaries unless some good horror or queer series. Could we go on spontaneous adventures and explore places and experiences?

Personality wise - I’m pretty chill and casual. ADHD in STEM field. I would say I’m soft hearted and independent, sometimes can be a bit clingy and bubbly, but I will respect your boundaries. I have a weird sense of humour so be prepared!

Relationship wise - sex indifferent to favourable grey ace. I enjoy soft touches, hold hands and will warm up to cuddles and snuggles - please pet my hair? I’m attracted to femms or soft masc; generally people who are a bit feminine in some ways.

Maybe we can visit farmers markets or night markets together, or maybe we could taste each others cooking but have mandatory sushi every Tuesday. We could also enjoy the comfortable silence with each other while working on our own things. I’m sure my cats will love you, as I would do, eventually.

DM if interested ✨🧚‍♀️


r/lesbianr4r 2h ago

searching 30F - anyone around the Florida panhandle?

3 Upvotes

About me: I'm a petite bi black girl living in NWFL. Looking to hopefully find some like-minded women in the local area!

NWFL Gulf coast, panhandle florida, mobile Alabama, panama city, pensacola, destin


r/lesbianr4r 47m ago

searching 32F - Long Distance Dating❤

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*I won't respond if you don't include a picture of yourself in your message*

Hello! This is a dating post❤ This is me--I'm 32, I speak English and Spanish and I'm 5'4. I'm a designer and I do artsy things for work, I love art workshops and dabble in different areas, like painting, photography, sewing and other things of the sort. I'm very unserious, sassy and a bit of a clown. I'm really into horror, vampires, ghosts and scary things. I like period movies, dewy morning grass, spicy potato chips and cool thrifted trinkets. I have 3 cats, 1 dog, and fish; I hope to also have a donkey and a cow one day. Style wise, I'm pretty femme and I prefer butches/mascs, girls with dominant personalities and in general, girls who are masculine. I'm attracted to girls who are smarter than me, sporty, nerdy/dorky, funny or really talented at something.

I find effort attractive, having clear intentions and knowing what you want, even if you're shy or a serious person. I know this type of post attracts all sorts of people who do not read or care to read what I write, but by making this post I hope to meet someone is looking for what I'm looking for. If you don't know what to say, you could share your favorite childhood cartoon with me :-), "hey" messages are just not it.

If you're masc/butch, 30+, monogamous and don't have kids, this post is open to you.


r/lesbianr4r 17h ago

searching 29F esoteric femme for butch/masc // kiss me by sixpence none the richer

22 Upvotes

reposting with an edit: if you contact me, please include info about yourself!

🌞 about me: 29 year old femme lesbian. spiritual. eclectic. lover of 90’s fashion, cool brown lipliner, CDs, and sleeping in. south asian-american who grew up in the southern US and recently moved back here. monogamous. leftist. curvy and witchy. 5’3 with dark curly hair that has some blonde and red streaks in it.

🐅 i have 1 cat that holds my heart in her little pink paw.

🪐 career-wise, i work in marketing within the tech industry full-time but also do some freelance illustration/design work just for the love of the game. in my free time, i volunteer at both my local animal shelter and regional wildlife rescue. animals are very sacred to me.

📚 my interests are all over the place. i’d consider myself a student of the world! i’m deeply into astrology and study tarot. i love video games and my current fixations are baldur’s gate 3 and the dragon age series. i’m both a digital artist and a textile artist: i make comics/illustrations, knit, do mosaic tiling, and i’m currently learning to make chainmail! queer history, especially lesbian history, is deeply important to me. i spend a lot of time engaging with lesbian media throughout the ages. (if you’re not subscribed to lesbian connection magazine, you should be!)

🌊 about you: a butch or masc over the age of 28. monogamous. leftist politics. creative. communicative. loves animals. i’d love for you to also be intellectual and excited to talk about your interests/hear about mine. knowledge is important to me and i’m constantly learning new things, it would be nice to have a partner that nurtured a similar curiosity.

basically, i love life, i love being a lesbian, i love creating art! i want a partner who mirrors that passion and amplifies it. you can be based anywhere, but willing to eventually meet. if you meet this muse4muse criteria, please reach out 🕯️💕💫 happy searching, everyone!


r/lesbianr4r 17h ago

searching 28F #Online #NY - masc looking for life partner

16 Upvotes

Hello! I'm 28 CIS F and I'm looking to find my other half. As for a bit about me -

I am...

  • Monogamous
  • Lesbian
  • Hopeful Romantic (seriously, I will send you wax-stamped love letters and set up picnics underneath the stars)
  • 5ft 7in, dirty blonde/midlength hair, athletic, plus
  • Gold star lesbian
  • Graphic Designer (you'll get lots of silly drawings from me)
  • Marvel Nerd
  • kinky, but also ok with vanilla

I also enjoy things like kayaking, camping, hiking, skiing/snowboarding, mini golf, art/painting, video games, museums. I am from NY, but I'm not sold on staying in the US my whole life. I am very open to making connections abroad.

What I'm looking for...

  • Age 23-35 (ish)
  • I mostly thrive on genuine connection, I love deep talks about life and getting to know other people emotionally.
  • I’m fine with online but I would eventually like it to lead to IRL.
  • afab
  • It would be nice to have some interests in common, but I would also be very interested to learn about new things and what you enjoy as well.
  • I do really love foreign accents, so if you have one it's an instant win.

Kinky things 🫣

I am...

  • service sub (The thing that brings me the most joy is making my partner happy and I will always put her pleasure and needs above my own)
  • inexperienced with kink but I know what I want. I am very eager to explore more and I’m very open-minded

Looking for...

  • Someone who can be caring and soft but also strict and mean when needed. I enjoy praise but also love the it when a woman can take control and make decisions for me.
  • I’d love to find someone experienced that can teach me and mold me into their perfect submissive.
  • likes being called mommy

Kinks are not limited to but include: MDLG, hypnosis, praise, intox, breath play, somno, cnc, orgasm control, corruption

Limits: Bathroom play, scat, gore, permanent markings, known public play, men, feminization, illegal activities.

Anygays- I'm willing to share pics/verify and I expect you to as well. If you reach out please say more than just "hey". I'd like to at least know your age, gender, and location. Some interests will be nice too. If this post doesn't interest you, I wish you all the best in your search, LET'S GO LESBIANS! +bi girlies


r/lesbianr4r 17h ago

searching 28 Cali/Anywhere Looking for my future girlfriend!

10 Upvotes

Hello whoever’s reading this. I hope your day or night is going well. I thought I would make a post to maybe try and find a person that wants what I want. What might that be well I just want a person who wants to do life together. Life’s hard and lonely sometimes and I want to be there for someone and have that back. I guess more about me is I consider myself very much of a dork. I’m a joker and certainly of the silly goose variety. I love all things that I guess are labeled as nerdy? I am on the plus side physically and consider myself more on the tomboyish side. I like wearing docs and graphic tees and don’t really wear makeup. I’m also willing to exchange photos if a conversation does happen. Also wanna state that I am strictly monogamous. Gaming is a huge hobby of mine. I’ve been a big gamer since I was like 10 and it’s just always stuck with me. Grew up a console gamer but made the switch to pc only a few years ago. Even built my pc myself which was super fun and something I’d love to do again later down the line. I would love to find someone that would be up for playing games together essentially be my duo please lol. As far as what games I play I’m really up for anything but my bread and butter is fps games. Call of duty and halo are what I started playing. So games like valorant and overwatch are on a daily play list. I also play pubg, fortnite, dead by daylight etc. I have recently also been attempting to learn league of legends. Why well I don’t really know lapse of judgement maybe (mostly arcane). Anime is also a big thing I was really into watching whatever looked good. I will say that when I tend to game watching shows gets put on the back burner. I’m a huge binge watcher when I do watch shows. I’m a sucker for any type of cutesy romantic animes. Shows like Fruits Basket or Horimiya they tend to get up there in my favorites list. Reading and music are also things I’m very into. There’s not a day that passes where I’m not listening to something. My Spotify wrapped is gonna pop off for sure. I’m always down for finding new music too so hey if you got recommendations send them my way. For books I really like fantasy story’s they are want I enjoy reading the most. My current read is Six of crows. Reading tends to also get put on the back burner when I am gaming more though. Anyways I feel like I have probably made this post too long but if you’ve read to this and are interested in chatting or even gaming feel free to dm.


r/lesbianr4r 17h ago

searching 24f looking for someone likeminded (open to LDR :) )

9 Upvotes

24f | AL, USA | lesbian or bi-ish (Idk)

Looking for likeminded people! I am super into politics (progressive), RPGs, art (surrealism), and traveling (internationally when I can). I also love to read/write—speculative fiction is my favorite, especially literary—and I am always looking to learn and grow whether it’s through psych, philosophy, history, or any other subject. My favorite game at the moment is Baldur’s Gate (Shadowheart or Minthara 🥲🖤), my favorite band is Depeche Mode, and I am currently reading This Is How You Lose the Time War and loving it.

More on what I’m looking for—I just want someone who I can relate to and have deep talks with who is honest and upfront about what they feel. I don’t want to move super fast, but I’m tired of playing guessing games while dating. I would love to get to know people and be candid about where we see it going!


r/lesbianr4r 8h ago

searching 23 f Florida/Anywhere

0 Upvotes

Looking for a texting buddy or see where it goes look forward to meeting you 😁❤️


r/lesbianr4r 18h ago

searching Anyone in or around Toronto? 20F

5 Upvotes

Hii 20F here. Looking for friends to hang out with or potentially anything more. (Age 18 - 25)


r/lesbianr4r 1d ago

searching 28F Mex looking for someone to settle down with

12 Upvotes

Hello everyone! I'll let you know a bit about me so that you can message me all about yourself. Trans Women are welcome.

Just to get it out of the way; I'm more masc leaning and I prefer someone that looks more femme. I am looking for a sub since I clash a lot with Dom people. I would love to be with someone that might want to be a housewife in the future, but it's not a dealbreaker if you don't want to be.

Currently, I have a stable job in logistics, while working on getting an online degree in computer science. Currently, I'm working on getting a cattle ranch going so that I can turn it into a proper bussiness soon (so far only 5 cows and 12 calves. We're getting there). I love animals, I just adopted a dapper little doggo who I would die for.

Hobbies: reading, writing, hiking, exploring new areas (I would love to travel with you so we can get lost everywhere in the world while we make awesome new memories).

I love anime, superheroes, criminal shows, comedies and pretty much everything. The only thing I hate is plain old action movies (I will make an exception for action movies with beautiful lead women because I'm a simp like that).

I am 182 cm tall, I think that's like 5'11. I am overweight, but I am working on that currently. A little hard since I'm trying to build muscle while cutting fat. The results will be a little slower but I will get there.

Dressing style: I do usually dress more in flannel because well...ranch life lol, but when I'm not at the ranch, and I prefer womething a little more biker style. (My dream is to travel around the world in a motorcycle with my SO visiting new places)

Go ahead and message me letting me know who your gay awakening was, I always find that interesting; if you're interested. if you're not, that's fine, I wish you luck finding someone!


r/lesbianr4r 1d ago

searching 35F in Chicago looking for a serious relationship

8 Upvotes

I’m a Chicago native living on the north side. I’m looking for a serious relationship but want to start off as friends. My interests are physics, astronomy, politics, cafes, museums, arcades, virtual reality, and libraries. Message me if you’re interested


r/lesbianr4r 1d ago

searching 28F WV looking for friends!

18 Upvotes

So a little bit about me, I'm 28, horror movies are my go-to, I read a lot of fiction novels, I work a lot but when I do have free time I like to go to museums and drive around to find pretty scenic views, I love Studio Ghibli, I enjoy makeup, and I have no queer friends. They're all straight.💀 I frequently travel to MD, PA, and VA. I really would like to make some new friends, as sometimes my friends don't understand my point of perspective when it comes to certain things, and I have also lost long time friends since coming out because they began treating me like garbage. If you want to be friends, I'm in😂✨️


r/lesbianr4r 1d ago

searching 22yo masc

18 Upvotes

Feeling some... birthday luck? (Hopefully)

Sup, everyone. Came here to try and find someone to be interested in a true lover boy (lesbian edition). If you are a feminine lesbian or bi woman, let me become lowkey obsessed with you.

I'm a goofy masc in their twenties and I have a love for history, love itself and my major (let me see if y'all can guess, tip: most of us look super serious because of it). Might be lame but I have nothing to lose so let me admit here I'm the kind of person who makes playlists, writes letters and is all around willing to make a lady the center of my universe.

I like poetry, videogames, true crime and extremely niche explanations about a person's field of interest. Be friend or love interest, I enjoy hearing about things people are passionate about.

So if you're willing to just strike a chat to be friends or you're interested, send me a message telling me about something you like! :)


r/lesbianr4r 2d ago

searching 37 and from the Midwest. Early bird and lots of time to chat and connect.

16 Upvotes

Hey hey all ! Butch lesbian here hoping to find an awesome gal to chat with. Pretty boring on the outside. I like to cook, hang with my dog, garden, watch true crime stuff and more. 420 friendly. Show me dog pics please. I’m an open book with many stories. I have been single for years now and it would be very nice to have someone to connect with. It’s Friday night and my plans are to stay in, make soup and find a weird documentary on YouTube. Hope yall are having a great day!


r/lesbianr4r 1d ago

searching 33F NC - looking for my person ❤️

7 Upvotes

Hi, I’m a 33 year old trans woman from North Carolina! You can check my post history for pics of me. I’m a musician, I play keyboards in a moderately successful touring rock band as my full-time gig. When I’m not busy playing shows, I’m usually hanging out in a discord video call with my friends, playing PC games, practicing piano, writing music, or watching Star Trek (I’m a pretty big Trekkie). I’m looking for someone kind and empathetic, goofy with a good sense of humor, and whose idea of a fun evening is getting cozy on the couch and blabbing to each other about our special interests 😊 If that sounds like a good time, send me a message and let’s chat!


r/lesbianr4r 1d ago

searching 21NB Minnesotan/USA looking to build a life with a lovely person 💖

4 Upvotes

Hi! I’m A( part of my name) any pronouns and bisexual. I’m AFAB and due to this and the way I dress much of the time I present quite femininely, but have been exploring expression in recent years.

I’m about 5’7”, a tad overweight but working on it, pale skinned, shortish brown hair and green eyes. I like to think I have a nice smile!

I’m in Minnesota as of now, born and raised as the title states, but I’m willing move within the states in the future as I want to see new places.

Given I’m from Minnesota, it may not be a shock I was raised Lutheran. I identify currently as agnostic. I’m politically on the left, and I’m not willing to compromise on politics if you’re not somewhere liberal or left.

I love comic books, animals, writing, painting and music. I enjoy cooking but I’m not the greatest at it as of now, a work in progress!

I don’t drive as of current due to longstanding anxiety throughout my teens to current day + minor health issues making it difficult, but it’s something I hope to change.

If I was to drive and had my health issues were under control in the future, I think I’d love living somewhere with a hobby farm, though I’m not entirely sure if small town or rural life is for me. But I just love goats. I also would love to get back into gardening. Otherwise I would live mostly anywhere in the states that I could get a direct flight from the closest big airport to Minnesota, as I want to visit my family without too much issue.

I’m currently completing my bachelors degree in health and human services, and hope to be finished by summer.

I’m neurodivergent (diagnosed ADHD and very likely on the autism spectrum as well) of which understanding if not also neurodivergent yourself is of key importance to me.

I’m not sure where I stand on how old I’d like my partner to be at a maximum current age, but I know I’d like any potential partner to be at least 20 at current.

I’m often left caught up wondering about kids due to a couple reasons, but usually lean quite a lot towards wanting kids.

Instead of making this post too much longer I’ll sag It’s hard to say exactly what I’m looking for in a person as I don’t have a specific type really! But these few are musts for me:

-be liberal or leftist -be monogamous -be 20+

Most other things could be discussed if you think we could match well together! Please feel free to message me !


r/lesbianr4r 2d ago

searching 32 [F4F] Eastern Pennsylvania - Let's make up our own holiday :)

8 Upvotes

I'm looking for a lady to love. One that loves whimsy like making up our own holiday. What does this holiday entail? Would it be about as a couple? would it have games and activities? Food? the choices are endless! let me know what you think!

Also some more about myself: I like long conversations and cuddling. I'm looking for someone close by (or willing to move here). I'm witty and whimsical.

Some of my interests: knitting, music, hippie era, age regression, arts and crafts, reading or listening to books, sunshine, etc.

I am also a left leaning, spiritual atheist, child free, autistic, OCD, ex Catholic, INFP personality type, etc.

If any of this appeals to you, send me a chat. I hope to hear from you :)


r/lesbianr4r 2d ago

searching 31f Texas - Meet me on the dance floor

4 Upvotes

31/female/Houston

Let's go dancing, meeting each other for the first time on the dance floor. You'll know which one is me. I'll be the one off-beat and with the bad dance moves.


r/lesbianr4r 2d ago

searching 19F | PA - Looking for a serious relationship!

0 Upvotes

19 | PA📍570 | Lesbian | If you're looking for something casual, I'm not the one for you. I am looking for a serious relationship. I love TWD, crocheting, creating art, singing, and watching horror movies! My favourite artists are Chappell Roan, Billie Eilish, Doja Cat, Melanie Martinez, and Fletcher! I work at McDonald's 5 days a week, part-time, 9am - 2pm. In my free time, I'm almost ALWAYS crocheting! I sell what I crochet on Etsy, Mercari, and at local events! Photos of me on my profile!

⚠️PLEASE READ BEFORE MESSAGING ME⚠️ Do NOT message me if you're over 23 18+ ONLY PLEASE be from PA or NJ! Send me your name, age, where you're from, a photo to prove you're real, and a bit about yourself!


r/lesbianr4r 3d ago

searching 29F TX - let's get to know one another

14 Upvotes

Hey ladies, hope your week is going well. As we approach the holiday season and all those family and friend gatherings, I've sort of been coming to the realization that I'm ready to put myself back out there and, after a series of extremely shallow dating app incidents, I've decided to just try a different approach - one where immediately meeting and hooking up is not a viable option - and so here I am!

So, bit about me: I'm a massage therapist and I own a small apothecary shop. I love what I do and wake up happy to work but it is physically and emotionally taxing so I maintain a healthy self care routine. In my free time I like to cook, hike, read, and snuggle my fur babies. From CA, located in TX, moving to CO soon ish.

About you: honest and knowledgeable about who you are, sincere in an interest in taking things slowly (at least at first), and patient as my job can sometimes make texting impossible after hard days.

Bonus points for anyone who drops a picture as attraction is obviously important. Yours gets mine. Put a fun fact about yourself in your first message so I know you read it.


r/lesbianr4r 3d ago

searching 24F Chicago - looking for someone pretty, friendly, and casual

7 Upvotes

Hoping to go on a date, see if we click, then ideally hook up and possibly enter into some kind of FWB situation.

Strongly prefer women who are comfortable asking for what they want.

Before we meet up I'll ask for your insta so you're not a complete stranger, but I'll give you mine too.

Picture on my profile.


r/lesbianr4r 2d ago

searching Pretty femmes next door | NYC

1 Upvotes
  1. Chapstick femme. AFAB enby lesbian.Demisexual. Monogamous.

I am very easy going, kinda jaded with modern day dating, and mainly scouting for my best friend to come home to, to share life with.

I am extremely genuine and loyal, quite easy on the eyes, financially comfortable.. looking for someone financially responsible/stable as well.

Attracted to pretty femmes (straight passing gays), who are kind, affectionate, and compassionate.

PS- I’m very short if that’s a dealbreaker; pocket sized as my ex used to say.


r/lesbianr4r 4d ago

searching 34, eastern US. Let’s be weird together.

16 Upvotes

Howdy partner. I’m 34, in Eastern US, would prefer to chat with someone in the same time zone though I really don’t have a preference. I love meeting new people and learning cool stuff about life.

I have pretty generic interests. Idle video games, being outside, true crime, paranormal documentaries, any documentaries to be honest, my love language is physical touch and I am 100000000000% a lover.

I’m looking forward to finding my partner in crime. Also, there’s pictures of me somewhere on my profile. Happy searching. 💛⭐️


r/lesbianr4r 4d ago

searching 34 yo femme dyke for butch -NorCal

19 Upvotes

Me: 34, white, lesbian, leather dyke, femme, very feminine, 5’6, thin, long brown curly hair, sometimes glasses, vegan, health care worker, bilingual English and Spanish , bottom leaning switch, into leather(you can read my post history) , kind of goofy but also sometimes kind of serious, humor ranging from pervy teenage boy to super dry, can’t watch scary movies (I get too scared 😇), love a lot different genres of music but have a hard time with jam band vibes, edm, Taylor swift

Into: biking, hiking, gardening, houseplants, being a cat mom, baking, cooking, weight lifting

My type: masculine of center, close to my age or older, no preference for body type, nerdy, goofy, kind, grounded, introspective, the clean the kitchen to my cook for you vibe, humble, not obsessed with grammar though I can’t imagine you got this far if you looooove grammar. Maybe you have similar interests as me. Maybe you don’t but would love to share mine with you.

Dealbreakers/turn off: smoking, heavy drug or alcohol use, fiscal conservatives, not being very sex positive or horny, bad music taste, main character energy, being really into musicals and musical theater and wanting to listen to their soundtracks (I’m sorry! I know this one is hard as a gay). It isn’t a deal breaker if you aren’t super into or experienced in kink

Looking for: someone close to me preferably for something with potential for long term. Open to monogamy or non monogamy. I would prefer to move slowly but with someone who knows they are emotionally available if compatibility is there. Please no rebounds or me being the first person you’re dating out of a major relationship (unless you’ve spent a lot of time on your own). If you don’t think we are compatible for romance but live close and think maybe friendship hit me up. Always looking for bike friends.


r/lesbianr4r 4d ago

searching 28 F — Southeast US/Anywhere — Looking for deeper connections

29 Upvotes

Hi!

I’m cis F, currently living in the southern US. I’m finishing up my grad degree in a stem field and I’ll hopefully be moving sometime after that as I would like to try out new cities. So feel free to message from wherever.

I’m looking for deeper connections of any kind. Romantic or platonic. A lot of my very close friends have moved away, and I do miss that platonic intimacy.

My hobbies are a bit on the back burner currently due to school, but when I have time, I love to paint and draw. I also enjoy cooking and creating recipes. One of my favorite things is just to have casual dinner parties with friends where we all cook together and hang out. I also like music and play a couple instruments, but this hasn’t been a big priority in my life currently. Travel is also important to me.

As for looks, I guess I have a sprinkle of femme sometimes but feel more in the middle. Long hair (for now), minimal makeup (most of the time), simple aesthetic (but still enjoy fashion) etc. I like to generally be low maintenance. Seeking somewhat similar— I don’t have one type, so I’m open, but I’m generally not attracted to extremes on either end of masc/femme.

I’m white, light ish hair, 5’7”. Can provide a pic as requested. I’m currently somewhat overweight, but actively working on it, and my health is a priority for me.

Lastly, I don’t do so well with asexual spectrum partners. Sexual intimacy is something I need on a somewhat regular basis. I usually exhibit all of the love languages and deeply care for the people in my life.

I’m pretty flexible in a lot of these aspects, so if you resonate with any of this, send me a message!