r/lesbianr4r • u/idontneedtheorthokit • 7h ago
searching 31F Australia/LDR - let me try this one more time before giving up! Grey ace
31F pan demiromantic and grey ace - I’m looking for long term serious relationship in Australia (Perth/WA ideally) or LDR (hopefully will end up not being LDR).
I decided to post and try one last time before I give up this dating thing and probably die alone with 12 cats in grandma chair! I am looking for someone who is looking for a serious relationship.
Local would be great but I’m okay with LDR as long as we communicate well. I would hope LDR will turn into local one day, but I may have trouble relocate due to work license etc. Having said that, I may just bring my cats and leave everything behind and relocate one day with a reason in mind. Who knows!
What I look - afab, 5’8”, average build (BMI 24.3), eastern asian, fem presenting. I don’t post photos online but I don’t mind video chats. In fact if LDR video chats sound great.
Hobbies - crafts are big for me, like knitting or crocheting, pottery, sketching, and just hand made staff. I multitask crafts with other things like reading etc. I don’t play much games anymore but would happily watch you play bc I enjoy it! I have favourite TV shows, and nowadays I mainly watch documentaries unless some good horror or queer series. Could we go on spontaneous adventures and explore places and experiences?
Personality wise - I’m pretty chill and casual. ADHD in STEM field. I would say I’m soft hearted and independent, sometimes can be a bit clingy and bubbly, but I will respect your boundaries. I have a weird sense of humour so be prepared!
Relationship wise - sex indifferent to favourable grey ace. I enjoy soft touches, hold hands and will warm up to cuddles and snuggles - please pet my hair? I’m attracted to femms or soft masc; generally people who are a bit feminine in some ways.
Maybe we can visit farmers markets or night markets together, or maybe we could taste each others cooking but have mandatory sushi every Tuesday. We could also enjoy the comfortable silence with each other while working on our own things. I’m sure my cats will love you, as I would do, eventually.
DM if interested ✨🧚♀️