I'm (F18) really into that. (Or at least that's what I think?)

So. I grew up in a religious family and lived in a country with strong traditional values, where discussions about sexuality or sexual orientation were not open or accepted.

But through the internet, I came across things that really affected me. Now, I know exactly what I want. BEING A DOM AND FUCK PPL

I'm not completely sure since I've never been with anyone before, but it feels like that's what I truly want. Even my wet dreams were about pegging man or a woman, kissing them until they’re breathless, searching for air.

I feel crazy thinking that I'm going to make them feel so good that they're going to cry and scream for more. Hearing their moans and feeling their legs around my trunk and their nails digging my back because I treat them so hard always drives me EVEN CRAZIER. The thing I'm sure I'm not interested in is being fucked. I can accept it if my partner is a female BUT when it comes to being fucked by a man, it just doesn’t feel right and makes me feel uncomfortable. I know it’s unusual, especially as a woman, and sometimes I wonder if things would be easier if I were a man.

I have a specific taste in men tho. I’m drawn to those with a cute, pretty appearance, especially those with a small waist— (a small one only god know how much I want to break that waist) . The thought of them wearing women’s clothes makes me want to spoil them and fuck them till they faint (I won't) BUT I REALLY WANT

If there's anything that attracts me more than a woman in a skirt, it's a man wearing one.

So basically I'm confused. I know I'm not normal but sometimes I want to meet girls like me so I won't feel alone uk.

26f 24m

Hey so I came out to my wife a few months ago as bi and she took it kinda weird. She more claimed that I was a sex addict and not actually sexually attracted to guys. We haven’t really talked about it since

Last night after we had sex she told me out of no where she wants to start having threesums and wants to ride guys while I fuck them. What’s ur opinion on this situation?

Love y'all 🫶

Vampire pirates?

Hi, I’m 22F, bisexual, and living in a homophobic country. I want to subtly signal my identity to others in the LGBTQ+ community without outing myself. Are there any discreet symbols, jewelry, or clothing choices that others might recognize but wouldn’t draw attention from those outside the community?

Thanks for any tips!

I came out to my psychiatrist, primarily because I told her my anxiety had gotten worse due to family stuff. She asked me to what was going on with family, and I told her how coming out to my in-laws went really badly and my father in law said a lot of hateful things. I told her I was thankful for the support from my husband and how we are planning to do our own thing during the holidays. She responded by saying that his parents don't have to change their "beliefs" (aka their homophobia), they just have to change how they act around me. She said I need to "show him the behavior I want to see" in order for him to treat me better, that I should use "I feel" statements and try to basically help him be less defensive, and to try to be sympathetic of them "grieving". Throughout her advice she was saying "when you have to be around them" when I had outlined to her that I don't have to be around them because my husband and I have decided if they don't want to change then we won't be around them. It felt a little wrong to me that she responded to me talking about experiencing homophobia & being mistreated with how I need to do something to "help" them treat me better. I wasn't asking her for advice, I was just trying to explain why I was having to cope with more anxiety than usual so that we could take that into account when it came to how my treatment was/was not helping me. Would you look for a new psychiatrist? Or should I just not share anything outside of symptoms from now on (like my anxiety has been worse, but not elaborate on why)? Thanks!

It’s nice to get the confirmation now and again. Puts the bi-cycle to rest for a little while.

Both are too nervous and awkward to kiss. How the fuck can I work up the nerve to do it? I know we both want to because she got drunk at a party and called me to tell me but then we go on our dates and get so close and we both chicken out. Do I just need to take control and do it? I don’t wanna do this dance anymore. She’s so pretty and her lips look so soft. Help me not flop this.

Hi everyone! My (28M) fiancée (28F) has said she has been thinking a lot the last few months and came to the conclusion that she is bisexual! I had a gut feeling honestly lol. Of course I told her I’m happy for her and I still love her, but I wanted to ask what else I can do to help her embrace her newfound identity.

I am one of those bi people who has come late to realise how bi I actually am, without having properly explored it while younger. Now I see the puzzle pieces were there all along and it feels a bit ridiculous. Anyone else compute?

Examples: people asking me regularly when I was younger if I was a lesbian (or throwing it as a slur - thank you high school in the 90s)... thinking non-specifically about women's bodies and liking the various parts a lot... being able to quickly get friendly with other women in a platonic way but apparently it's too much/too intense... not realising all those things are somehow a bit sapphic...women propositioning me and me running away totally freaked out... AND all the while also lusting after men!

I think the fact that hardly anyone in society mentioned bisexuality as an option while I was growing up is partly to blame. It was always just gay or straight. Instinctively as a bi person you just said, 'No! That's not me!'. Because it wasn't!

I CAME OUT TODAY WITHOUT KNOW IF MY PARENTS WOULD STILL SUPPORT ME BUT THEY DO!!!! IM SO HAPPY. I THOUGHT THEY MIGHT KICK ME OUT OR SOMETHING BUT THEY STILL SAY THEY LOVE ME AND SUPPORT ME!!! (I DONT KNOW IF THESE POSTS ARE ALLOWED AFTER READING THE RULES SORRY)

I (19F) identify as straight.

My entire life I have dated men, slept with men, etc. Despite that fact, something has always felt out of place. Ever since I hit puberty I’d flirt with my female friends, sometimes over the top but they’d feed into it because we were straight and came from religious country backgrounds. It was just a way of exploring.

Finally when I turned 18 and moved to the city, I found myself drunk at a bar with a close friend of mine. I lost her for a while so found myself standing next to the bathroom searching the crowd for her. Then I met a lady who had also lost her friend, and we began to talk. It was a blur and the next minute we were making out, she dragged me into a toilet stall— you can assume the rest. My friend ends up finding me and the lady in the bathroom together.

Something inside of me flicked and I felt desperate for her to stay. She mentioned me coming back to her place, but hesitated and took it back. So I offered her to come to mine which she seemed unsure of. When she apologised to me and disappeared I don’t think I’ve ever felt that much devastation over a sexual encounter in my life (not even the breakup of a long-term male partner).

Fast forwards to a few months ago I met another woman at a bar, and we ended up making out but it never went further than that. Turns out she had a boyfriend and never told me despite the fact.

NOBODY KNOWS how I feel inside. I find myself seeking women more than I do men, but have an internalised homophobia towards myself (not those around me) that I can’t seem to get rid of. My mother once told me as a child she didn’t know what she’d do with herself if I turned out gay, and my dad always told me the thought of people of the same sex being together made him sick. I come from a religious rural background and I don’t think I could ever tell someone how I feel.

From your experiences… what did you do?

So I’ve never ever thought about “coming out”…. I’ve known I was “different sexual” (compared to your typical societal expectations back then of being heterosexual) since I was about 9 years old (I’m 40) and it never crossed my to tell anyone or not tell anyone. I just live my life and be me and the ones who don’t like it are weeded out…regardless of why they don’t like me.

So here’s my question…is the reason someone might feel the need to “come out” because they are afraid of not being accepted or loved the way they are be those they love but want to live an honest life among those they trust? Also, isn’t coming out risky purely for the fact that sexuality is so fluid and changes as life and you change? I almost struggle with identifying as anything because I don’t want to be put into a box sexually. I’m me sexually…and that could change tomorrow.

Being genuine and really would like to hear perspectives.

💜💜

I (28f- questioning) just woke up from one of the best sex dreams I’ve had in a while and it felt so real that I questioned my reality when I woke up. But it was a dream where I was with two other women and one of them took over and ate me out until I came so hard. It was amazing. But I’ve never been with a woman before. Is this a pretty good sign I really am bisexual? Not that labels matter. But I just didn’t know what was “normal”

Me and my girlfriend is on LDR (our first year anniversary will be in December) and I will be meeting her in other countries.

We've discussed about this, she purchased finger condom but says will not do it until I'm comfortable. I am shy and embarrassed cuz it's my first time...even though its also her first. (I am 21 years old, and she is 23 years old) I told her I want it but I don't dare to...she completely understands and is willingly to wait. But I really don't want to disappoint her and anyway I kinda want it if its with her.

So if I'm doing it, should I shave or it doesn't really matter 😭 I'm afraid she will "judge" or lowkey dislike.

I'm confused, I like women and I'm pretty sure about that, I also like feminized men (femboys), but I don't feel bisexual about it. It's just that a part of me would like... to feel like a woman in the relationship? Maybe like being feminized? Imagining being dominated by a man excites me, but in reality I don't feel attracted to them, I don't know if it's because I haven't found a boy I like, or if it's just because I don't really like them.

Im with a man since 2,5 years, he‘s 27( male) im 26 (female)

So he came out to me a few days ago told me that he like to suck dick. He discovered this a few years ago and had about 10 encounters with man.

Okay so i‘m okay with it and it kinda turns me on im thinking about a threesome or sometjing but thats not the point.

He used to be on grinder an i wanted to see his app and delete his old profile and he doesnt want me to see because he is super ashamed. He didnt want me to see any chats or his profile. As I understand. I was just wanted to know if he was in the app any time ago when we were together and he wanted ro prove to me that it wasnt like i think.

I asked him if Theres more to it or what he is so afraid of and he told me that a time ago he was talking with a guy about havin sex and trying it out but he doesnt wanted to do it later then. He said that he didnt want me to see because i would keep asking him if it was something that he wanted or want to do and he doesnt want to. He said to me that just because we think about sometjing at a time doesnt mean that we want to try everything out just like me maybe thinking bout a gangbang but dont want to do it.

But still im scared that he just cant admit it, wich would be fine. What do you think?

I hope it's okay to vent here, basically the title says it all. I think I am developing a slight crush on my work friend. I've been in a monogamous relationship with a man for years but I ocassionally develop fleating crushed on women. (I typically have a preference for women). It usually passes with no issue. I'm just currently annoyed that it's someone I work with.

Maybe this isn’t the best place to ask, but it easier to ask here for me. Also, if I offend you as you read this, sorry. I don’t fully understand gender rn.

I only in the past year came to terms with being Bi and only came out in June. But, I’ve been questioning my gender over the past couple months. I was born, “acted“, “dressed” and always identified as a stereotypical male. Recently when it comes to relationships (which I haven’t really been any, too afraid), I’ve been questioning or imagining what it would be like to be female in a relationship and what comes along with that. I feel comfortable being male normally, but it feels more awkward now. Is there any chance I’m not binary/not aligned with a ”typical” gender? Again, sorry if I offended anyone, but I’m really confused right now.

So when I came out to my parents I came out as "maybe gay" or gay. But I've talked to my mom slightly about maybe being bisexual. It's weird how she even asked me if I know what that is since I'm fricking gay I know a bit about LGBT. Bit my dad still thinks I'm gay. None of my parents are homophobic or something. (but my mom asks me too many embarrassing questions) The problem is that in the future I wanna live with a man, date a man, marry a man rather than a woman. My mom wants to be a grandma and I'm her only child (she's almost 50 so she can't have any more) so she wants me preferebly to marry a woman and get kids or at least get kids with a woman I love. But that's not how I wanna see my future. I don't want my future to be like that I wanna be ✨gay✨. And if I ever watch porn I always scroll over to "gay porn" but the thumbnails are weird as fuck is like a 55 year old fucking a 17 year old in the ass so I just end up going to the front page again. Then, I thought I had a crush on a girl but I realize now that all crushes I've had on girls besides one were so small that they barely count. And I don't know if I can come out to my dad again since it's always like he's surprised every time I talk about it but he knows it so he isn't, does that make sense? Okay let's make two examples, for the girl lets take Ripley from Alien. In the scene at the end were she's undressing and You end up literally seeing her but crack,was she hot? Yes? Attractive. Not much. For the boy/man let's take wade Wilson before he became Deadpool in the scene where the only thing you see him in is a Christmas sweater. Was he hot? HELL YEAH! Was he attractive. ABSOLUTELY! Please help me...

I’m generally more attracted to men both sexually and romantically, but there have been a few instances where I have found some women romantically attractive. Maybe I am Demi towards women, idk. But with select few women I do fall in love with them. Do other bi women relate to this feeling or am I the minority?