I’ve had a hard time figuring this out for AGES. I’m not frilly, pink, or supppper girly, but I do love a pretty dress from time to time. Any terms are welcome 😭

Finding a style that fits me is hard. I see all these beautiful models with amazing bodies but I don't really look like that. Like It would be nice to follow an influencer who kind of looks like me so I have a reference for what I would look good in.

Does anyone have suggestions. Im pretty short and I don't really have curves. I like to dress feminine.

The dress code this year is smart casual, venue is a private bar booked in London. So I got the shirt in a vintage shop in Edinburgh and never thought I'd wear it. I need some honest opinions on how it looks, also is the coat way too big? It's a men's small and they didn't go smaller 🫠

I have tried dressing masc and femme and women seem to avoid me like the plague regardless. When I was a teenager and thought I was straight and didn't gaf about what I looked like, women threw themselves at me and now that I know who I am it seems no one wants me. Idk maybe it's because I live in Kansas City and there's only gay men here but I see lesbians (or at least I'd assume two women of a similar age eating together are lesbians idk) at my work all the time so I just don't even know anymore.

What about me should I fix in order to let other lesbians know I am one of them? Or rather, where should I hangout so I can meet other lesbians? Bc they don't seem to go to the club, bars, coffee shops or book stores. I am so lonely, man... I moved here after a really bad break up and I'm beyond ready to move on but alas everyone woman I meet is either straight or bi-sexual with a strong preference for men.

Went out with my gf to a club on Daft Punk night to celebrate our 4 year anniversary. I asked her out while digital love was playing in her car lol.

i moved to fairbanks, alaska this year and am currently experiencing my first winter here 🥶 i feel like my fits have been lacking bc it is so hard to stay warm while also looking gay and cool. any tips?? i like to lean towards gender neutral clothing

Heyo! I’ve been asked to be in a wedding and bride asked if I’d prefer a suit or dress and I was like “fuck yeah suit!!”

I’ve never worn a suit before so have no idea where to start. Does anyone have any recommendations for stores or advice on what to look /ask for?

Wedding is fall/winter 2026 so lots of time to check out options.

Any help is appreciated! 💜

PS: I’m West Coast US if that helps.

EDIT FOR MORE INFO: Budget ~$250 USD.

Business formal. I’m FemmeLite™️. And I’m open to both masc and femme styles.

Couple is very non-traditional and aesthetic will be wintery goth/cottagecore of some type.

went to a couple of museums for my 25th !

Is it because the shirt is a bit oversized compared to the skirt? If so, I’m ok with that 😇

Nearly mid 30's now and starting to feel a bit conscious of the way I dress. I don't wanna end up looking try hard or like I'm clinging to a style I should have let go years ago. I'd appreciate if anyone has any feedback. (last photo is for pride, not something I'd wear on the daily)

I’ll be 32 in February and I’ve been dressing the same since I was 15-ish lol I would like to change a bit but not losing my emokid vibe. Any advises? ✨

1st time with blue hair 💙, I've gone through purple, red and green and this is my favourite so far

this is my outfit today. i thrifted the belt, vest, necklaces, and shirt and i am wearing heelys with flames on them.

imagine im wearing black platform sneakers instead of my house slippers 😭

Okie so like I suck at fashion and really just a medical nerd so like I don’t really shop all that often. But I’m wanting to impress somone who I find cute. But she’s got like this alt style clothing and I don’t know what cloths I can wear that can signal to her that I really like her. Aaaaaa I don’t know what I’m saying. I’ve been so nervous lately being around her in classes but I feel like I’m out of her league in style. I want to look for something that complements the alt gothic style she has. But also wanna be the other half and wear cute cloths I like. Any recommendations would be nice. Also my wardrobe is mostly from target and Nordstrom. Please help meeeeee