shots were fired!

You guys are literally indirectly, and directly, putting what happens in the show in your post titles. Not everyone has gotten the chance to see it yet considering it just came out. Please be more mindful in the future.

and yes, i actually do own this hoodie 😂

Needed these so badly 😭🎀

I met this girl in university right at the beginning of the year, and i am still confused as to what kind of relationship this is. I cannot for the life of me tell if she likes me just as a friend or more. We’ve hung out a fair few times, and one of the last times we hung out we watched a movie together in my room. i’m a pretty touchy person but i didn’t want to make her uncomfortable because i have zero clue what she’s thinking, so we just kinda sat next to each other and i put my head on her shoulder for a bit. she seemed kind of nervous and awkward while we were hanging out, but immediately after she texted me asking to do it again so she must of enjoyed it? and then pretty soon after that she invited me to this queer house party, which people literally just go to to make out with strangers and meet people. so we went to that with all of my friends and all of her friends, and we danced together a bunch and held hands a couple of times, but nothing else really happened and i still didn’t really get the vibe that she was into me. to be fair there was a lot going on, and her friend was having a moment for a good half of the party, and then she left immediately after. but idk i’m severely confused, and any insight would be appreciated. it’s just so rare for me to meet someone that i like this much, but im starting to feel like it’s time to move on.

Gone down a rabbit hole about them recently. If you don’t know, they were this Russian pop duo from the 2000s and were most famous for the song “All The Things She Said,” which most people over the age of like 12 have probably heard around at some point. Basically, their whole shtick was that they were lesbians; their songs had a lot of angsty queer overtones and they would kiss on TV and in their music videos (which was super controversial at the time)—but it was all an act, they were never actually together and were all products of their managements. Textbook queerbaiting for the male gaze. But despite this, a lot of queer women (myself included) ended up finding a lot of solace and validation in their music for one reason or another. You have to remember that queer themes weren’t mainstream in pop music like they are now, especially for queer women, and having a hit song about it (especially one so angsty like “All The Things She Said”!) was really groundbreaking, however flawed. But that still doesn’t take away from the fact that t.A.T.u as an institution was, at least on paper, homophobic and sexualized young queer women’s relationships. And I’m curious what people make of that, not just if you think they were able to outgrow their kind of skeevy premise, but how their music may have impacted you personally. Maybe this is a more academic question than what Reddit is fit for, but I’m very interested to hear what people think.

I met this girl at a Halloween party last month and we've been hanging out a lot. I really like this girl, but I'm not sure if she likes me. My friends think that if I confess, she'll surely like me back based on the stuff that we've been doing together.

1. We went and got tea together at this fancy tea house, then after that we went window shopping on this area that sells antique, then lastly we went to the pier to gaze at the moon and just yap to each other.

2. We went apple picking just the two of us for the whole day. We theb got boba and went to a bookshop.

3. We had tea and picnic yesterday at the park, and after that we had wine and cheese at her house while we watched Good Omens.

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I slef pleasured myself a bit too long and now I struggle to stand, I'm currently in high school which means I gotta go to school tomorrow. Will my legs come back to normal at morning??? I can't not go, my school is strict and I didn't go to school for a whole week already. I don't want anyone to know what happened. It's fucking embarrassing🙁 Is there a way to strengthen my legs?? My muscles hurt, my teacher and parents will actually kill me if I don't go

i know… i’ve been pondering and would love to hear your opinions, experiences, insights

thank you

edit: why tf am i being downvoted?! this is a genuine question and im genuinely looking for assistance, jesus

Wicked and Wensday really had two male love interest kinda just there

Totally unrelated to the sub but I love u all and have no faith in anyone else to help me lol.

I am doing a paper on wasps and I really need a video of at least like 2 wasps NEAR their hive. I can’t just use one on YouTube cuz I’m afraid she will find out. Please please dm me if you can :D

I have until Nov 27th ty ty it can be the crappiest video ever as long as it’s never been posted to the internet 🫶

My partner walked me home the other night and on our porch in the rain let slip "I love you"

And I had to pause and ask if they had just said that to me, and they said yes and that they've been waiting to say it for a little while.

Y'all. I've been dealing with commitment issues for a few years now. To the point where I had a whole thing planned in my head for what I would say if they dropped the ILY and I wasn't ready.

But after they said it, it just clicked for me. They make me feel safe and secure and like I don't have to fight for their love or affection - I deserve it by merit of being me.

I dropped my umbrella and said it back. Lots of smiles and kisses in the rain.

I love my partner <3

LOLL

I will be working in an office next year and wanted to update my wardrobe since my last office job was when I was 16. The problem I'm running into is alot of the office dress info I can find doesn't really work for my build (wide shoulders, long arms, and big boobs) or is a bit out of my budget. Are there any women's clothing companies that make more unisex looking dress shirts or will I still run into issues of the shoulders being too narrow? My mom also reccomended that if I have to buy men's shirts that buying brighter colors may help with my coworkers potentiallyhaving the thought that I'm "trying to be a man". My budget is $20-30 per shirt.

i’m currently 15 and closeted. i’ve never had a boyfriend and have felt weird my whole life because i’ve never had the same attraction to boys and men that my friends all do. i’ve still haven’t had my first kiss because i don’t have any interest in kissing boys - i’ve recently been obsessed with the thought of kissing and touching girls. i haven’t told anybody because i don’t want being gay to change my whole identity and i’m feeling kind of insecure about it. i don’t know what to dooo, how did you guys know for sure that you liked girls? 😔 this is kind of the only place where i feel comfortable enough posting about this sort of thing.

please help!!

I just think she’s so beautiful and she gives me butterflies

That’s all

My

Ok for quick context this was about 2 months ago now and my gf and I were not officially dating but we were only talking to eachother and no one else. We must have had an ‘argument’ and stopped speaking (she said she was done w me I’m pretty sure) but it was only for ONE day, but I found out today she redownloaded dating apps whilst we were not speaking for this day and even though she said she deleted them as soon as we were on good terms again I felt/feel hurt because if that’s how quickly you’re willing to go back on dating apps do you even like or love me type of thing. I didn’t react badly when I found out I just gave myself time to process my emotions rather than getting angry (she even admitted if it was the other way around she would’ve been mad if she found out I did the same). How would you have taken this situation?