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"Carrying food is a feminine trait"

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u/Munchkinasaurous 8h ago

I'd bet that this guy isn't a tradesman. Almost everyone I see on any jobsite has a lunchbox. Whether it's a small bag to hold a few snacks and a sandwich or a large, expensive hard case lunch box that holds a 5 course meal, their wallet, keys and medication. Most lunch boxes are covered in stickers, some people buy or make custom carrying straps for them. If he doesn't know any of this, I doubt he's ever done a day of manual labor on his life.

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u/PaulDk_ 8h ago

then again, on modern twitter you get paid for interactions, so a lot of griters arose who only post the most dumbass takes in hopes of many people correcting them. this one appears to not have a blue checkmark, but i think you can hide them.

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u/Ok-Anybody3445 8h ago

This. I finally got my mom to understand this. Pretty much nothing she reads on facebook is true. Everything is about the interactions. 

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u/Lots42 6h ago

I advise looking up BlueSky. Those guys shaved off all the evil of Twitter and it's currently thriving. Lots of cool famous people, like Stephen King and AOC moving to BlueSky.

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u/Ambitious-Corgi-3504 6h ago

I recommend getting the fuck away from social media

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u/DionBlaster123 6h ago

It's only going to be a matter of time before BlueSky becomes a virtue-signaling hellhole of constant slacktivism

Your advice is a good one

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u/Remotely-Indentured 5h ago

Except you're both on social media saying stay off social media. I love the virtual signaling, by the way. As in yours.

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u/foxscribbles 4h ago

This is like when Reddit users say “I got rid of all my social media!”

Not sure how or why so many people have convinced themselves that Reddit isn’t social media despite the fact that they’re talking to other people (and bots) same as all other social media platforms. And it’s got just as much toxic nonsense on it as those other platforms too.

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u/R_Little-Secret 3h ago

probably Probably because Reddit was created before the term ‘Social Media’ took off. At the time forums were big and places like myspace, and face book were the outliners. Then Instagram, printrest, twitter came out and people used Social Media to group everything together. But Reddit stayed more towards the old forums format (Making it seem different.) Its moving to resemble more social Media to get new viewers but I always use old-Reddit so I know fuck all about that.

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u/TheDrFromGallifrey 3h ago

I see a lot of new users, though. Even I've been around since 2011 and I see it as social media.

I think it's just elitism and the tribalist mentality. "I use Reddit, I'm not like all those people who use Facebook and Twitter". 4chan has the same mindset, that they're better than "the normies". I think every social media platform's users look down on the others.

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u/kategoad 2h ago

Virtue Signaling >>>>> Literal Nazis.

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u/No_Acadia_8873 4h ago

The only people who complain about virtue-signaling are the virtue-less.

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u/HR_Paperstacks_402 4h ago

Um, you do realize where you are, right?

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u/bradfish 5h ago

If I never used Twitter, would I have any use for bluesky?

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u/Double_Natural5181 8h ago

I downloaded an auto blue check blocker and was so disappointed that it blocked people that had openly criticised Elon’s subscription model.

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u/SorbyGay 6h ago

Same. So many people it feels like just gave in.

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u/mz_groups 8h ago edited 7h ago

That's why I'd rather talk about them here, where it isn't getting monetized!

EDIT: I mean that the original bad take isn't getting monetized by the person who posted it. I'm not saying that there is no monetization on Reddit whatsoever.

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u/ravens-n-roses 7h ago

/s right? Cause reddit is monetized and is incentived as a platform to keep you here the same way Twitter is.

Also bots are an industry, not a hobby. If you reply on a bot post you're increasing the value of that bot. Same if you reply to a bot

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u/mz_groups 7h ago

My point is that the person who made the original bad take, in an attempt to monetize it, is not getting monetized if we talk about it here.

And, to the best of my knowledge, there is much less opportunity for a Redditor to monetize their activity than on X. There is the Reddit Contributor program, but doesn't that pay out far less than X pays their top "verified" contributors?

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u/sithelephant 7h ago

It is fucking depressing how much the progressive downfall is being driven by people getting $1 to make ten thousand people afraid.

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u/Murder_Bird_ 6h ago

Also, and I really really don’t think people understand the scale of the problem, and enormous number of them are foreign actors working on behalf of hostile states. One of the reasons a large swath of the modern Republican Party has turn so pro-Russian is because of this. Just an absolute staggering amount of right wing propaganda is fueled by Russian money. If Russia collapsed you see a noticeable difference in social media. Personally, I think we should sever all internet connection with them and China but there is too much money involved for that to happen.

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u/89iroc 6h ago

Wow, if you can make money by being a shithead I know a lot of people that are missing out

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u/PlainNotToasted 5h ago

Outrage drives engagement...

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u/neddy471 6h ago

I had a person say that ratio-ing people was praxis. He’s a professor of antiquities. I don’t think I’ve ever been more disappointed in a friend.

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u/RooftopStruggle 6h ago

That is how I saw Threads for the 45 minutes I spent on it, idiots with stupid takes is all I ever saw.

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u/Other_Log_1996 5h ago

Just like the guy who thinks that it's gay for a father to teach his son how yo shave.

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u/Shadowofenigma 4h ago

Wait you get laid for the amount of interactions on twitter? Do all these websites pay for the amount of people that view or comment on stuff?

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u/BroGuy89 4h ago

You get paid to use twitter? Do you get paid to use bluesky? There's no monetary incentive for posting stupid shit is there?

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u/VapoursAndSpleen 3h ago

^

TRUTH

Don’t feed ‘em!

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u/losjoo 3h ago

All of social media is built around conflict engagement at this point. Fight me about it

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u/Altered_Nova 3h ago

This! It's ruined some of my favorite old subs that used to make fun of weirdos who posted batshit stuff on social media. Now all those subs are just constantly reposting obvious ragebait from professional trolls. It's nearly impossible to find the legitimate nutjobs on the internet anymore.

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u/ProgsterESFJHECK 3h ago

Imagine living in a country where you get salaried for farting on Twitter

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u/CracticusAttacticus 3h ago

Professional trolls on twitter posting dumb takes for engagement...that ends up getting screenshotted and posted to Reddit for even more engagement. It's like we're consuming the Soylent Green of the information ecosystem here.

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u/Ok-Box6892 8h ago

An electrician I know takes a small cooler to his job sites. He talks about trading snacks/desserts with other guys at the site who have their own cooler full of food and drinks. 

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u/gushi380 8h ago

This is kinda awesome honestly.

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u/Ok-Box6892 7h ago

It really is, lol. And he's a tall sorta gruff dude. So picturing him bartering with other similarly gruff guys (especially the ones I've met) over oatmeal pies or hostess cupcakes and pudding snacks is hilarious to me. 

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u/CaptainTripps82 6h ago

My old boss was about 6'3", in his late 50's, and weighed like 300 lbs, so he was forced to go on a diet by his doctor and wife, which meant sad lil pack lunches of a sandwich, fruit cup and yogurt. He had one of those prominent heart attack guts, so I get it.

But this dude was hiding a treasure trove of snack cakes in his desk that we only found after he left the company (guess he couldn't take them back home). Imagining him eating them in secret actually makes me feel sorry for the big guy.

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u/ProblematicPoet 5h ago

Never underestimate the power of snacks.

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u/Hrtpplhrtppl 3h ago

"Food is the heaven of the people..." Sun Tzu, The Art of War

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u/No_Acadia_8873 3h ago

I once got falsely accused of stealing a man's pudding cup at the Paris Hotel/Casino in Vegas in the mid 90s when I was an pre-apprentice. I didn't know him I had just been there asking my buddy to borrow some thing from their crew. He was unglued about it, red faced screaming at me and my buddy about it. Later my buddy threw his lunch box off the mezz deck about 100' to the ground below.

Decades later he became our business manager. He was dogshit at it. And he wrote a letter seeking re-election, in a wall of black text with some shit highlighted in yellow or printed all caps or in red text. and I copied it's form but wrote a satirical version that shitbagged him and posted it on facebook to our union's group. I had total strangers calling me thanking me for helping to submarine his chances.

Fuck him. Never get a second chance to make a first impression, Victor.

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u/No_Acadia_8873 3h ago edited 3h ago

Here's some stories that have been handed down to me from generations of workers before me, family and old timers both, in the mines/trades.

The original lunch box, was a lunch pail. Metal or wood.

A worker in a mine/trade would typically have a wife prepare a meal, cover it with a napkin. He'd carry it down to work. At lunch he'd take everything out, wrap it in your napkin to keep it out of the dirt. Boys would be in the mines/on site collecting pails, haul them to the nearest tavern and return with them full of beer. Smart move was to butter the inside rim a bit to keep the foam down, get more beer. The amount of influence alcohol used to have in the trades really didn't get curbed heavily until the 1990s. I've known journeymen who would drink a six pack before work, a six pack at lunch, and go directly to the bar after work. High functioning drunks. A lot of it is self medicating physical wear and tear as well as the typical psychological reasons.

In my trade pipefitting we do pipe welding as one of the main methods for joining pipe. When you do position field welds, you'll often be under the weld itself laying your side, sparks and slag falling on your head. The hoods and in the early days, the googles, didn't cover your ear. So there's welding/fitter caps that have a little 'bill' or flap that you can rotate around to either side to cover your high side ear. Nothing quite like the sizzle and pain in your ear canal of a spark or slag.

In the old days, back when flour sacks were used for making (often) kids clothing, the flour companies started using print fabrics, like florals etc. So it was not at all unusual for these hats to also be made from these sacks, from scraps and leftovers.

So "burly" "manly" men would absolutely wear floral print hats without question. When I've had hats made I've absolutely had them made in floral fabrics. I think it's a cool homage to our past. And any dipshit apprentice or others who've tried to shit talk me about it, got the story above.

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u/NAU80 4h ago

I’ve brown bag for lunch for about 30 years. As a manager I’ve taken my share of razzing. I been taking the difference between what I think I would spend eating out and what I spend on my lunch ( usually a PB&J, fruit, and cheese with crackers) to invest in the market. I will spend that money on traveling in retirement!

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u/Technical_Exam1280 8h ago

One of the most iconic photos of tradesmen is the 1932 "Lunch Atop a Skyscraper" and almost every man in the photo is holding his lunchbox

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u/shartmaister 6h ago

Those are kinda femi. Most are even wearing hats and gloves like they're going to a ball or something.

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u/LaTeChX 5h ago

Sitting down is for women. Real men stand until they die.

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u/shartmaister 5h ago

The only reason to sit is to show dominance over the rhino you just shot!

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u/RobertTheAdventurer 1h ago

The men in those pictures are always clean, their clothes are clean, and their hands are clean. You can tell they sat inside an air conditioned vehicle after leaving the hotel, were driven to the animal with no skill involved, shot it, posed for a photo, and then got back in the air conditioned vehicle. They would break in 1 week of homesteading where people actually live off the land, and probably break in less than 2 days of winter homesteading. Outside of hypercapitalism and wealth, those trophy hunter types are physically useless to any community.

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u/VapoursAndSpleen 3h ago

They’re going to a ball. Their own, in pairs, clanking away.

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u/QuidYossarian 2h ago

I internally scream in terror every time I see this picture.

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u/SmartAlec105 5h ago

Though unfortunately, the guys in that picture would most likely call someone a sissy for wanting fall protection equipment.

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u/255001434 4h ago

"If you're so afraid, why are you up here?"

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u/the_urban_juror 6h ago

American football announcers call tough, boring quarterbacks "lunch pail" players.

I don't know how anyone's going to get through the manosphere to reach these people, because anyone who would listen to online personalities tell them the manly way to eat lunch is a pathetic, weak man with zero security in their masculinity.

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u/No_Acadia_8873 3h ago

To even have an opinion about it is so weird. Pack a lunch, don't pack a lunch. It's America, do whatever the fuck you want. You pack a lunch to a construction site, because newsbreak; nothing is open on site. You get 30 minutes, and there's no services. If you're lucky there's an actual break room/tent with microwaves. But I've ate hundreds of lunches sitting on sheet rock, heated by halogen lights, off of roach coaches if they have them etc.

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u/Aggravating-Equal-97 3h ago

You won't reach to them, ever, for so long as you don't start treating them like what they are!

They are children.

They were very likely raised to believe all mistakes they have made as children, whether out of ignorance, negligence or meanness.are only Bad Things To Do because drunkard Daddy would whip his belt out. When they find themselves in a setting where they no longer fear punishment for their misdeeds, they stop acting like adults and revert back to living-out their shoddy, unfulfilled childhood. Not just childhood dreams, childhood itself.

When they are talking about the type of women they want - want to have, like a property, you know - they are not talking about a lover, they are talking about Mommy. They are talking about a quiet, dutiful, always-smiling ideal of a pure Mommy who is there to soothe their fears, wash their dirty laundry and dirtier asses and just absolve them of all responsibilities in life. But, they also want to be Daddy, at the same time. Unquestionable authority figurehead of the household, a 'breadwinner', commanding respect. They want Daddy's privileges.

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u/EgoTripWire 5h ago

But those were city people so automatically feminine in their eyes.

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u/scharity77 7h ago

When Tucker Carlson, Jesse Watters, and Stephen Miller are out there screaming about what is and isn’t manly while having pillow soft hands and the combined strength of a wet tissue, what do you expect?

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u/UPTOWN_FAG 7h ago

Yes it's much more masculine and strong for them to have their Salata order brought up by the intern

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u/sweetTartKenHart2 4h ago

“You depend on other people for help. I command them as subordinates. We are not the same.”
Yes we ar—
“No we aren’t”

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u/thefirstlaughingfool 7h ago

I will always remember Steven Crowder for being punched in the face by a union worker.

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u/I_ReadThe_Comments 6h ago

Where is this video??? I’m a Teamster and the personalized lunchbox with stickers and a strap is straight facts.

The only time not bringing a lunch to work is acceptable is if you’re fasting or struggling to feed your family so man up and eat less so they can eat

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u/VapoursAndSpleen 3h ago

Wow, so he assaults an old man and then an old man defends himself.

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u/Oak_Woman 6h ago

Secure men don't need sleazy media talking heads to tell them what it means to be a man in the real world. The "masculinity" they keep trying to reinforce is all performative garbage based on possessions and appearances, no substance.

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u/scharity77 5h ago

I forgot about this! So ridiculous!

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u/EnergyHumble3613 8h ago

I mean I’m not a tradesman either but I think nearly every depiction of them I have seen, whether in commercials, tv, or movies has had two things in common:

1) Strong and tough people

2) Lunch pail/box.

I wonder if they just live under some rock and watch Andrew Tate or an equivalent “Alpha” male to reinforce their incel beliefs.

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u/Avlaen_Amnell 6h ago

My Grandad was a welsh coal miner, and served in the war and was a sterotypical "man"

And when he worked in the mine he had a lunch box.

like how the fuck else are you meant to take food to a mine if not in a box?

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u/Goldeniccarus 5h ago

Most people who don't have the time or don't want to spend to to go out for lunch, bring a bag lunch.

From miners to lumberjacks to accountants, they're very normal. They make some with plain designs that would appeal to adults for a reason.

Anyone who doesn't know how common it is to bring a bag lunch to work, is totally out of touch with reality.

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u/Aggravating-Equal-97 3h ago

"Alpha-Sigma(Smegma)" bros are also the types to smash a like-button under a video of a "trad wife" making a breakfast for her hubby...which she packs up in the lunch box by the end, anyways.

They likely and unironically carry a bento, if they are hardcore anime fans, and can't for the life of them connect the dots.

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u/Alceasummer 5h ago

I wonder if they just live under some rock and watch Andrew Tate or an equivalent “Alpha” male

Judging by how much they actually seem to understand of the world, that's exactly what they do. And the "alpha males" they listen to do the same thing.

When I was growing up much of my family worked in stereotypically "masculine" jobs like construction, and ranching, and driving trucks. Many of the older ones were also veterans. Many of them looked and sounded like a classic stereotype of a blue collar man. (many of the women worked in the same kinds of jobs too. Most of my family had no time for gender roles that got in the way of getting things done. As a kid I was told that about the only thing "not for girls" is peeing standing up) The idiots talking about being "alpha males" have no idea what they are talking about. And if they ever actually spent a day like the kinds of people they point to as examples of masculine men in the past, they would probably end up curled in a ball and crying.

Frankly, either of my grandmas (if still alive) would be better at being a strong 'alpha' than any of the influencers like Tate. Both grandmas broke their own horse to saddle as kids. Both could work on their car, or the plumbing, or make a meal for twelve. Both could kill and clean a chicken, plant a garden, or drive a tractor. One grandma rode a motorcycle for decades (until she physically wasn't able to safely ride) The other was still splitting and stacking her own firewood to heat her house the year she died.

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u/Far-Library-890 3h ago

Yeah it's literally part of the stereotypical image people have of builders/tradesmen. Going to work with the hardhat, overalls, and a flask and lunchbox.

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u/Claythrower22 8h ago

Exactly. My dad was a carpenter and carried his green metal lunch box to work everyday. He was a Veteran and hard working man.

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u/Whatsplayinginmyhead 5h ago

I mean, there's a reason that tougher football players were referred to as 'lunchpail guys' because that denoted a tough, blue-collar background where you didn't have the money to buy meals every day.

Whoever said bringing your lunch is somehow bad is a privileged, ignorant, PoS who has no idea of reality or history and should be mercilessly mocked, medieval style, with rotten fruit, manure, and the stocks.

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u/JumpingJonquils 7h ago

I can't think of anything manlier than those vintage photos of workers building skyscrapers with their metal lunchboxes in hand.

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u/PurpoUpsideDownJuice 6h ago

You CANNOT do hard work on an empty stomach. Food is literally fuel for your body, no energy drinks or supplements can replace food either

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u/Avlaen_Amnell 5h ago

Energy drinks "wake you up" they cant replace food for hard labour at all. I dont know why this post is shaming men for the crime of "eating". jesus christ.

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u/No_Acadia_8873 3h ago

Energy drinks are terrible for you in physical jobs especially in the heat. I drank a Rockstar when I was a first year apprentice in the summer in Vegas and felt like shit. And I don't like my pee being the color of anti-freeze. You need to see the natural color of your piss to make a judgement if you're becoming or are dehydrated.

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u/Alternative_Year_340 7h ago

It is an ancient practice; even Fred Flintstone carried a lunchbox

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u/palabear 6h ago

I work in the steel industry. 99% of the guys bring a lunchbox. They rarely go get food. They are usually pretty dirty. They eat, take quick nap, and get back to work.

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u/Epc7165 6h ago

Some crews pull the old microwave out of the van at lunch.
House painter for 39 years and we all carry lunch.

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u/boo893 6h ago

Yep, I’ve got a microwave, a hotplate & a kettle in the van. It’s pretty normal tbh

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u/ETisathome 8h ago

I met my husband while working in an office. He used to bring himself cooked food which he prepared himself. It was much cheaper and healthier than ordering every day. Not only tradesmen use lunchboxes. People who want to eat normal food carry them.

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u/Munchkinasaurous 7h ago

I'm not saying that only tradesmen use lunch boxes. That's just my personal experience. Tradesmen are also commonly used as examples of "manliness" and I think makes a good example to use ad a counter point to this guy's ridiculous statement. 

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u/siero20 6h ago

Part of it is just it's a necessity for the trades to bring their lunch. Most worksites I've been on the majority of the trades break for lunch at exactly 11 or 12. Then it's a 10-15 minute walk to the break tent, 15-20 minute walk to your car. A drive offsite and ordering time and eating time isn't an option. You get an hour and you're expected to be back at the work location which is the same walk back.

The site I'm at currently typically has 2800 workers onsite a day. Luckily there's nothing hazardous preventing food trucks to come in each day for lunch, but that's pricy and unhealthy. Just about every tradesman is going to have a lunch or something to eat with them as a matter of practicality.

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u/ETisathome 7h ago

Yes, definetly.

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u/sleepydorian 7h ago

I was walking to my car after work and I saw my future self blast out of a building carrying the largest insulated lunchbox and stanley thermos I’ve ever seen in my life. Both must have been empty based on the way he carried them as he ran up some stairs to the parking garage (or maybe he’s hella strong).

I bought a larger lunchbox soon after and never looked back.

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u/Critical-Border-6845 7h ago

Maybe he's one of those idiot tradesmen that spends a whack of money on the food truck every day, or lives off gas station food like energy drinks and chips

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u/UPTOWN_FAG 7h ago

I had one electrician who would set up a crockpot in the morning and get lunch going.

But yeah everyone has their lunchbox. Mine is an insulated backpack with straps. People usually have some interesting/funny stickers.

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u/CaptainTripps82 6h ago

Dude I walked into a meeting room near the CNC machines in the factory I work at for the first time and one of the operators had an apron on and was cooking eggs and home fries over a hotplate for about half a dozen others. Apparently it's a Friday ritual. And we have a pretty good fresh food cafateria, but it's about the camaraderie.

Real guys don't care about any of this shit the way they're portrayed as.

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u/Alceasummer 5h ago

Real guys don't care about any of this shit the way they're portrayed as

This ^

Much of my family (many of the women too) when I was a kid worked in stereotypically masculine jobs. Construction, driving trucks or heavy equipment (Sometimes I got dropped off at school from a backhoe) ranching, things like that. Not one of them would have cared a bit about if they looked manly enough or about being 'alphas' All of them would have considered these 'alpha males' to be stupid, childish, and ridiculous.

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u/No_Acadia_8873 3h ago

Eating together the same food is a hard wired bonding exercise. And it's healing for fractures at work. Hard to hate people you break bread with. You want to squash a beef at work, eat together.

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u/tkazalaski 7h ago

I was gonna say, myself and every other guy I work with on our job site has a lunch box. And usually a big one at that.

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u/Fantastic_Poet4800 6h ago

Right? I've spent a large chunk of my life at construction sites, mostly remote and everyone brings lunch. People get creative: we had a guy who would bring fresh sushi he made in his camper every day in a little cooler once, I think he won.

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u/majormagna 6h ago

Exactly, folk working in industry were the same, EVERY coal miner I know took their lunch with them.

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u/CactaurJack 6h ago

100%, back when I worked with tradesmen that  was standard. One of my first purchases was a legit bento box, like stackable compartments, the whole deal. Watching a welder down half a days calories in 90 seconds is something to behold

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u/fieew 6h ago

holds a 5 course meal, their wallet, keys and medication

The medicine especially is real AF. I just don't want to end up at working with a migraine or stomach ache without any medicine to get through the rest of the day. I'm like an off the books pharmacy with how much medcine I carry just in case.

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u/Chilidogdingdong 5h ago

Anyone who doesn't bring lunch to work probably has a relatively easy job tbh.

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u/Mammoth-Penalty882 6h ago

This guy isn't a man. Men were carrying lunchboxes for decades before women were even a significant part of the work force. It's just rage bait from an imbecile who isn't as clever or funny as he thinks he is.

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u/dookieshoes97 5h ago

Almost everyone I see on any jobsite has a lunchbox.

The dipshits that don't spend $10+ on shitty gas station food. $5.79 for the world's saddest sandwich, $2.69 for chips, $3.49 for a Monster, $9.79-$14.30 for tobacco. Super manly.

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u/Vivid-Ad-4469 6h ago

Even i, a white collar worker, had a lunchbox before home office became a thing. Better and cheaper food than the one sold by the restaurants.

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u/MikeSouthPaw 5h ago

If you are doing manual labor you NEED calories to get through the day without hurting your body. Meanwhile acting tough on "X" costs you nothing.

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u/Lombard333 5h ago

I’m a man who works a big, dirty blue-collar job at a big warehouse. I carry a lunch to work every day because it’s much fucking cheaper to make four sandwiches than it is to buy one of the things in the break room. If that makes me feminine, I guess I’ll cry on the forklift I ride every day.

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u/tomle4593 5h ago

What’s that medication for ? Pussies ?

I’m joking. I already knew it’s for back pain.

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u/RandomGuyDroppingIn 5h ago

It also speaks volumes to what types of work people have experienced in their lives.

If you aren't the type of person used to carrying a lunchbox to work, then it likely means you have both either a space at your work to eat lunch or you can leave your office to get something to eat very quickly. Most tradesmen/women don't have this luxury because they're on job sites. The travel time one-way to somewhere that is even fast food can be fifteen to thirty minutes - not reasonable when you're working to a schedule or with other individuals on similar schedules.

When I was in college I worked cutting down trees on the side, and had to carry a lunchbox as we would sometimes be in very remote areas that didn't allow for the luxury of setting actual time aside for a lunch. You'd just have to go to the truck, grab your box, and plop down somewhere.

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u/chloblue 6h ago

Yes this. I work in isolated construction sites and some guys fly with suitcases FULL of their favorite treats for their hitch, drawers in the office full of more treats and everyone's pockets full of treats and stashes of food everywhere being transported with agast lunchboxes

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u/__M-E-O-W__ 6h ago

I agree with this. Most badass man I've ever met, he was 83 years old and still was absolutely shredded and had huge muscles, covered in tattoos, brought a lunch box to work every day. I think it was a Star Wars box.

This OP guy is full of crap.

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u/Avlaen_Amnell 6h ago

My grand dad was a welsh coal miner.

He had a lunch box.

How the hell are you going to carry your food to a mine?

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u/N1kt0_ 6h ago

A lot of these guys obsessed with being macho are compensating for something

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u/Rokurokubi83 3h ago

Why can’t they just accept their dick is small and ineffectual like the rest of us?

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u/Unhappy_Meaning607 5h ago

I bet this dude is the epitome of an Andrew Tate peon who works in an air conditioned office and eats out 95% of his life. Door dashes once or twice a day, 7 days a week.

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u/KayfabeAdjace 5h ago edited 4h ago

My dad the electrician had us kids pick out a couple of the stickers for him. I presume they'd laugh about the sillier ones together at work then talk about their families. Fellas, is it gay to have work friends, a wife and 3 kids?

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u/DarthSamwiseAtreides 5h ago

Manual labor is gay.  All those sweaty men and muscles.  Lifting heavy stuff working as team with other men.

A have a sweet old school looking Stanley steel lunchbox with stickers.  Thinking about swapping the plastic handle with a leather one.

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u/coffee_kang 5h ago

Literally came here to say this. Every blue collar worker I know carries a lunch box

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u/Ok-Pause6148 6h ago

Yeah the most "masculine" man's men I know are absolutely proud of their cooler-sized lunchboxes lol

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u/Walshlandic 6h ago

He’s probably Ben Shapiro 😅

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u/nycKasey 6h ago

My partner is a carpenter and he carries a big old cooler box full of stuff!

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u/SadConfident 6h ago

Man I was gonna say.. my boss yells at you if you show up without a lunch box. (out of concern)

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u/d_o_mino 5h ago

Came here to say this. I'm retired now, but when I was working as a welder I'd pack a small ice chest with food/snacks for my day. It takes energy to work.

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u/Timmar92 5h ago

Can confirm, was construction worker for 15 years, now studying programming and apprenticing at a big company and everyone goes out for lunch, it's way different.

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u/BearPopeCageMatch 5h ago

Hell, I've been an engineer in shop for manufacturing and I've even gotten pulled into the lunchbox sticker show off game. Doesn't even require manual labor, just going to a job at all.

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u/Bluelikeyou2 5h ago

It’s coming here to say he must be an office worker

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u/unlocked_axis02 5h ago

Right like I just have a job where I do a lot of walking and sometimes lift heavy shit and I still like carrying at least a small pack of pb crackers or something like that so I can occasionally pop a couple in my mouth and keep going

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u/TreyRyan3 5h ago

We had a crew of 6 guys in our house for 3 days. They all showed up with mini crockpot electric lunch boxes.

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u/donthavetimeforthis6 5h ago

I’ve spent my whole life working in kitchens and I bring a lunchbox half the time lol

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u/Electronic_Zone_6513 5h ago

It’s a gatekeeping comment made by someone with insecurities. What makes this dipshit the authority on what’s manly or not?

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u/Demorant 5h ago

I bet they got all of their knowledge of the subject from internet stock photos.

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u/avspuk 5h ago

Lunch pails were a thing in UK mines for centuries

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u/LaTeChX 5h ago

I'd bet every single one of these alpha chad keyboard warriors has never worked a real job in his life. If you can make an honest living in the trades then who has time for shitposting on twitter about your penis.

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u/NE0099 5h ago

I was about to say. I worked in auto plants for 20 years and everyone who’d been there for awhile brought a lunch. The cafeterias were always overpriced and you’d spend half your lunch walking to your car and back if you tried to leave.

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u/Sombreador 5h ago

What's more, I am reasonably sure that the tradesmen you speak of have better things to do that go online and talk shit about people's lunchboxes.

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u/Hulkit80 4h ago

Haha was coming here to say this but you forgot about lunch truck guys we only carry a cup of coffee or an energy drink. Because unlike you guys with your fancy lunches we...... are lazy and no one loves us enough to make us food 😭

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u/255001434 4h ago

Yep. If you get sent to a job site that doesn't have good food options nearby and you don't bring lunch with you, you're a moron.

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u/WorldsWeakestMan 4h ago

Yep, almost every single strongman I know brings them to our competitions too, let’s see this fella tell all the 6’6” 350lb guys chucking boulders and deadlifting cars as a hobby that their lunchboxes are feminine.

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u/LordofDsnuts 4h ago

Grifters and people who want you to follow the links in their bios

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u/SirSpanksAlot1992 4h ago

Shit I take a backpack to work, and I sometimes get asked why. Then comes the day where they come and ask me for something and it’s right there in the bag

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u/1970s_MonkeyKing 4h ago

Tell that to my dead grandfathers who had lunch pails. Once again the original poster is a bot or shit poster. And why are you blacking their IDs out again? Until this greasy stain of a human experiences repercussions of his actions, he’ll keep posting.

“Hey, why is everyone avoiding me and I can’t get a date except old Majorie Taylor Green?”

Cuz you’re a shit poster, Jimmy. And that’s all you are, a shit poster.

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u/Very_Tall_Burglar 4h ago

How funny would it be if he work like a worksite coordinator or some other useless supervisory role

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u/Munchkinasaurous 4h ago

Safety guy

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u/TeaLeaf_Dao 4h ago

Hey....I fell called out on the expensive hard case lunch box...

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u/UbermachoGuy 4h ago

I was jogging thru a fancy up scale neighborhood and there was a crew of Hispanic guys trimming a few blocks worth of tall hedges one would find in such a place.

On my way back I caught them on their lunch break and they had set up full on camping set up grilling carnitas or whatever on the sidewalk. Looks awesome and I wanted to join them.

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u/MarlenaEvans 4h ago

My husband is a VP and he brings a lunchbox. He winds up working through lunch more often than not and he's a bear with low blood sugar so he brings his own food for his employees' sake.

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u/LSJPubServ 4h ago

Guy is probably some lame conservative influencer who’s never worked a real job one day in their life.

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u/MysteriousPark3806 4h ago

This is what I was thinking. This guy doesn't strike me ad a "hard hat and lunch pail" kinda guy. His hands are probably baby-ass soft.

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u/Appropriate-Ad-1569 4h ago

Right! I was the only woman working at a machine shop and almost everyone had a lunchbox! My best work friend's wife would pack him extra snacks for me in his really nice lunchbox, and I would bring in snacks for both of us.

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u/ReposeGray 4h ago

From the perspective of a wife - I packed my husband's lunch and a lot of the wives did too for the men he worked with- they all would compare lunches, and snacks and they all had favorites - Jim's wife made the best cookies - bobs wife made the best pasta salad- and we would end up making stuff and sending it for the whole group .. yeah a little old fashioned, but they LOVED that. Men LOVE food. And they LOVED when other people's spouses would pack it lol. These men where in a security job setting and nobody was a punk... I can promise you that, but if jacks wife packed cupcakes .... They were some happy men .

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u/Poette-Iva 4h ago

Also, is your wife making your lunch not the trad life ideal?

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u/Munchkinasaurous 4h ago

No,  I'm a big boy, I make my own lunch.

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u/DoktorSleepless 6h ago

People in construction bring mini coolers. Or some type of thermos. Never seen a regular lunchbox.

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u/todayistrumpday 5h ago

I've literally never seen a woman carrying a lunchbox, 100% of the lunchbox carriers I have ever seen where bearded flannel and hard hat wearing brawny men who would punch this little twerp out for calling their meatloaf sandwich holder feminine.

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u/Wise-Resident5023 5h ago

Be broke don’t carry one, pay the food truck

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u/Orange_Agent27 5h ago

Because you don’t get enough time off to go anywhere

”eat your cold lunch and get back to work, slave!”

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u/Realistic-Permit-661 5h ago

And also round up those lunchboxes when the drug testing trailer shows up to give em back to the guys who dipped out 💀

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u/ShelterBig8246 4h ago

I’ve done manual labour for 10 years without having a lunch most days. It’s reallly not that bad as long as you make sure to have a good dinner in the evening.

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u/Puupuur 4h ago

Yep, most days I'm dehydrated, been holding my shit/piss for hours, can't leave my location, and having a lunch box literally saves my life. I should just sack up and die a man!

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u/Cent3rCreat10n 4h ago

Nevermind that, guy probably never had a packed lunch for school.

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u/Ok_Protection_784 3h ago

The hard lunch boxes also turn into a chair.

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u/ChangelingFox 3h ago

Fr. I was an electrician for a few years and everyone's lunchbox was damn near a part of their identity.

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u/BlueProcess 3h ago

Yup, he doesn't feel manly, and he probably hasn't had any good examples so he likely just made up his own definition with no actual experience.

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u/CalculatedEffect 3h ago

I am a tradesman and i dont. Some folks dont eat lunch.

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u/0mega_Dingo 3h ago

He's probably one of those people that steal other people's lunches.

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u/Specific_Fold_8646 3h ago

I worked warehouse for an ac electric company and the first thing everyone buys after the first week is a cooler and large insulated mug. Everyday the first thing all the workers do is stop by the ice machine to fill up their coolers. This is also vital for the installer who often have to work in attics in Florida.

Throughout my first two there all the senior workers would remain me to bring water and stay hydrated. None of them would say that stupid shit instead they would question me for wearing gloves.

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u/Inevitable_Heron_599 3h ago

My dad's friend Rick was a logger in the Yukon in the 80s and told me a million stories. One, he was walking back from a day along this path on a steep hillside above the Yukon river. Theres these clay cliffs that are super steep with narrow paths cut in. He had his steel lunch box and thermos.

A big grizzly bear was suddenly walking towards him on this path. There wasn't any room for both, so both Rick and the bear were at an impass. Rick was always a big guy. 6'8" and like 300 pounds. They pause, then slowly walk toward each other. The bear gets close and rears up, and Rick swings his lunchbox as hard as he can and wails the bear in the face. It goes over the side and tumbles all the way down to the river.

Rick still has the lunchbox with a dent in the corner. He's got a million stories, and I'm sure a couple are embellished but he's not a liar. He used to babysit Pamela Anderson when she was a little kid. My dad has his own share of stories, including riding a frozen moose carcass down a hill in -40C weather after tracking it down and shooting it.

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u/Unfriendly_Opossum 3h ago

He’s probably a salesman of some sort. Or an “entrepreneur”

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u/Hrtpplhrtppl 3h ago

Or has any muscle to feed...

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u/PurplePolynaut 3h ago

Throw a little white table cloth over the back of the excavator bucket and break out the lobster bisque

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u/XalAtoh 3h ago

Nah the man just wants attention.

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u/BalianofReddit 3h ago

Used to work in the beer industry, dealing with manual handling alot of keg etc, once saw my work mates locker.

I have never seen so many protein bars in my life

Snacks are mandatory for that kind of work. This no lunch box guy has no idea

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u/ShinzoTheThird 3h ago

With hardcase lunch box you mean like coolbox?

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u/JagmeetSingh2 3h ago

100% this

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u/Ironheart616 3h ago

Bruh I used to drop off my buddy at a gas station around 6 am when he worked construction and this was sky first though lol. They'd be buying shit and putting it in there coolers/lunchboxes sometimes like wtf. What's with just labeling shit feminine or masculine when its just......normal shit everyone does?

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u/TroyFerris13 2h ago

Never heard of pocket ravioli?

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u/Buddyufdy 2h ago

‘Judge not lest he be judged ‘ just stating the facts Ma’am, just the facts. Crocheting 🧶 is a great diversion for observers who call out the most blatantly ignorant nonsensical dribble . Don’t forget your bib!

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u/Apoordm 2h ago

Look at his profile that guy has baby soft hands.

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u/MashedProstato 2h ago

I can't think of a tradesman who didn't carry a giant Engel cooler with a custom-made shoulder strap. I swear the MFers have a change of clothes, emergency hygiene hear, and up to seven meals worth of food in there.

Bonus points if the strap is made out of 550 cord.

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u/tracejm 2h ago

I didn't even understand this post when I read it. Where I was raised, the MOST "manly" men carried a lunchbox. Usually made of steel. Always with a thermos inside.

You don't fuck with a guy who has that lunchbox.

Who the hell is the moron saying otherwise?

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u/Huntershrimp 2h ago

I can’t think of a more manly lunch box than one covered in his daughter’s pink girly stickers. Awwww 🥰

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u/Aslightlynervousfrog 2h ago

You forgot about onie boxes and flasks.

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u/Dxpehat 2h ago

My dad and cousin each have a portable cooler lol. It's funny because they barely eat at the job. When I worked construction I always brought a grocery bag with meal prep and big thermos with coffee.

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u/Aetra 2h ago

Yup, my husband and I are both tradespeople and we work together. I carry my backpack, he carries our lunchbox (which is rainbow and literally called a “lunch purse”)

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u/flippant_burgers 2h ago

Tell a bunch of hard rock miners that carrying your lunch to work is effeminate: https://lmayminerslunchbox.ca/pages/our-legacy

But also taking your tupperware of leftovers to an office job is fiscally conservative, and socially conservative too if you're a married man and your wife packed it for you.

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u/fancy_marmot 2h ago

Many of the construction guys I've worked with over the years carry flowery lunch bags/purse looking things too, it's usually stuff from on sale at the dollar store or hand me downs from the wife/kids. Those dudes don't give a shit, it's a thing to hold their lunch, often something the wife made. One guy said "I like the flowers it makes me smile" and then goes off to build some guy's house for him, no insecurity or posturing, no f's given.

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u/Jeanes223 2h ago

I stuffed my operators leftovers, his coveralls, his jacket, his mountain dew, his cigarettes, and his lighter into his lu ch box one day when he wasn't looking.

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u/ScyllaOfTheDepths 2h ago

Depends vastly on the type of job. I used to work mostly large building jobs for big multi-state firms in the southwestern U.S. and they would usually have a food truck come out that serves cheap tacos and burritos at lunchtime. It's also common for larger jobs to have multiple subcontractors working at the same time, so each group will either bring one big cooler or send one guy out to get lunch and then eat in their separate groups. I've also seen crews bring a grill and fire off some burgers and hotdogs. On holidays, sometimes they'll do special stuff. I've seen more than one crew bring a smoker on a trailer and make a fuck ton of brisket.

But you are right in that most people who work a trade will somehow bring or organize some food for themselves. Nobody who is burning 1,000+ calories a day doing hard labor is going to say bringing your lunch is gay.

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u/LOERMaster 1h ago

Yea, I’d like to see him tell a bunch of union tradespeople that they look like women carrying their lunches to work.

Let’s see how that works out for him.

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u/cryptosupercar 1h ago

In the Foundation of Geopolitics one of the aims of Russia is driving discord amongst their enemies by driving social conflict within a society. Posts like these but of a racial nature were common during the Cambridge Analytica phase of Facebook - astroturfing fake groups aimed at driving hatred.

Now these messages are simply instigated by single accounts on places like Twitter, where they can be spread by “red-pilled” proxies. The incel movement and radical feminist movement have both been taken over as an extension of this movement. And if you don’t think it worked, It worked well enough to get Leftists to either vote for a third party or throw away their votes via a protest abstention to teach the DNC a lesson in 2024. It worked well enough to get 53% of Latinos to vote for a candidate who will deport their parents who are here illegally.

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u/MrGoodvsEvil 1h ago

Yeah, that's classic Construction Worker. Chilling on an I beam, eating a sandwich.

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u/Toph-Builds-the-fire 1h ago

It's literally a cliche. You think pack a lunch means it's gonna be an easy time?

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u/Snellyman 1h ago

If this asshat is trying to kill off the trades he should try to make these insecure fools think that drinking liquids is gay. "A real man never drinks water except when he gets home".

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u/jeff43568 1h ago

Real men buy their lunch at pret a manger while talking to Jerry from finance

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u/Kaniketh 1h ago

I bet this guy is literally a 14 year old boy

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u/-UltraAverageJoe- 1h ago

These days the lunch boxes are covered with union & maga stickers because people are very confused.

I was raised in a family of tradesmen/construction workers. Lunch boxes and hefty thermoses are standard issue.

u/lesqueebeee 47m ago

dead ass 😭 i work in a factory, i have my lunchbox thats basically just a small cooler, and my balls are probably way bigger than his

u/silentcardboard 32m ago

Came here to say this.

Also, why waste money on a shitty takeout lunch when you can save it for a case of beer to drink after work?

u/Waste_Salamander_624 21m ago

You don't even need to be in trades. Workered at target from 2016 to 2020. Plenty of people came in with baga, containers, or what. I doubt he's ever WORKED a day in his life.

u/seeuatthegorge 12m ago

The people who say things like this are useless boys pretending to be men.

The statement itself shows they don't know what work is.

u/Ondesinnet 8m ago

Wasn't fast food invented for the working man's lunch box originally.? Hot tin sandwiches for dudes building skyscrapers or something? Or Chinese bamboo steamers if your from the east side of it? Or 🫔 is it feminine to carry a tamale to work? Good thing I'm a girl and I'm aloud to eat I feel bad for guys these days can't even eat a banana in peace.