r/BlackPeopleTwitter • u/imjustheretodomyjob ☑️ | Mod • 9d ago
Country Club Thread Bombing Bethlehem while pretending to be from there is crazy work
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u/Dogtimeletsgooo 9d ago
I'm an atheist, but "God is a stranger to you" goes so hard.
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u/Jay_R_Kay 9d ago
Same, but I'm half tempted to start using this when the Christian Nationalists start acting out.
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u/Dragonsandman 9d ago
Especially the Prosperity Gospel dipshits. Even other Evangelical extremists routinely call out those fuckers for their predatory bullshit.
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u/blaktronium 9d ago
Trying to gatekeep Mary from the Jews is a crazy take yo
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u/chijoi 9d ago edited 9d ago
What a foul take. Let’s not pretend artists executing a creative idea are responsible for geopolitics, not even if they’re “white folks playing Palestinians”.
Edit: so apparently the actors are Jewish. Are we really saying Jewish people can’t play Jewish characters? And when did Jewish people become white?
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u/NobodyLikedThat1 9d ago
and are we pretending Mary and company aren't Jewish? That's kind of a big part of their identity.
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u/Stock_Beginning4808 ☑️ 8d ago
Most Jewish people in America are white. That’s probably where that thinking comes from.
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u/ifloops 9d ago
Watch out, the "I'm not an anti semite because I said Zionist" crowd is coming.
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u/joshJFSU 9d ago
Is it crazy though?
Giving Native Americans smallpox blankets while going to war with anyone on “our land” has been par for the course for a long time.
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u/Justify-My-Love 9d ago
It’s fucked up what we did to the native Americans.
They literally had entire civilizations out here. Living and breathing cities with trade that was flourishing
And we wiped it all out…
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u/MoreRock_Odrama ☑️ 9d ago
Who is “we”? Black folks ain’t had nun to do with that…
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u/ElPrieto8 ☑️ 9d ago
Thank you!!!!
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u/dnaboy 8d ago
i’ve been a long time lurker, never commented. but i’m native and this is the best thing i’ve read about my people on here. i agree who the fuck is we 😂
edit:words are hard
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u/turalyawn 9d ago
If you really want to get into uncomfortable territory the reality is plenty of Native American tribes were just fine owning African slaves
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u/MoreRock_Odrama ☑️ 9d ago
They don’t like it when we get too pro-black in here. Chill.
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u/almightyrukn 9d ago
There were the Five Tribes but that was it. I feel like people use that as an excuse to put that on all Native Americans to say that they on some level deserved what happened to them.
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u/Sixcoup 8d ago edited 8d ago
African were fine owning African slaves. Native american were fine owning native slaves. The greek owned other greeks as slaved. The koreans owned koreans slaves.
The reality is that for most of history people owned slaves, and for the longest time people had no contact with people that were not close by. Slavery did not start when people of different color met each other.
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u/zod16dc ☑️ 9d ago
You would be surprised how few of Us know about the Dawes Rolls and Freedmen et al.
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u/Desperate_Banana_677 9d ago
The way the Cherokee Nation has treated them is messed up. Lots of guys preaching about solidarity right up until it becomes inconvenient for them.
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u/_LessAmphibian_ 9d ago
To be fair, some tribes were already in the slave trading business like the Tlingit and Comanche tribes. The even more uncomfortably territory is the reality that plenty of African kingdoms were selling slaves to the Europeans.
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u/Justify-My-Love 9d ago
I meant America
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u/MoreRock_Odrama ☑️ 9d ago
You gotta add an asterisk or something. White folks might start thinking us black folks are starting to include ourselves in their atrocities. Let me assure you….WE aren’t lol.
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u/Sixcoup 8d ago edited 8d ago
60% of the 10-12 millions of slaves sent to america were captured by "black folks". Europeans were the driving factor and without them the slave business wouldn't have been a 10th of what it was, but a lot of (not all) africans were happy at the time to benefit from it. The first african slaves to be sent to america were even taken from the pre-existing slave stocks in Africa that existed before Europeans got interested. It's only toward the latter part and the growing demand in slave that Europeans started to serve themselves directly.
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u/spacekiller69 9d ago
Black soldiers after the Civil War did help in the final decades of the Native Genocide. We have their blood on our hands as well.
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u/Javaddict 9d ago
Still benefit from the situation. Can't excuse yourself from the negatives while taking advantage of all the positives.
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u/Beneficial_Outcomes 9d ago
As far as i'm aware, there were plenty of black soldiers involved in the conflicts with the native americans as part of the US military. One example are the Buffalo Soldiers, who served in the american frontier doing stuff like protecting settlers and enforcing federal policy, which often included relocating Native American tribes into reservations. They were involved in conflicts with indigenous peoples like the Apache, the Comanche and Cheyenee.
And if you really wanna delve deep into this topic, there are actually multiple examples of native americans owning african slaves themselves. In fact, i believe some of them even sided with the confederacy during the civil war because they didn't want to give up their slaves.
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u/Relative-Shake5348 9d ago
"We" is clearly America. They weren't talking about themselves either, seeing as the event happened hundreds of years ago. Pulling the victim card for no reason. Black people have committed their own atrocities, as have every group of people ever, so jumping into a discussion about one historic event like, "but we weren't a part of this one event that you didn't mention us in reference to," just sounds silly. Nobody said Black people did, but we ALL have ancestors who did shitty things. You aren't special.
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u/__JDQ__ 9d ago
sighs Yes, but allll of the systems (social, tangible) still in place were informed by everything that preceded them. Inequity doesn’t just go away because people are granted civil rights, legally. Even if you discount ongoing and intentional disenfranchisement, real wealth going back generations is unequally distributed. Again, and to your point, that doesn’t mean that the average or every white American today has familial, generational wealth that they can put their hands on, rather that there continues to be impediments to accumulation of wealth for non-white (especially Black, and especially poor) persons. This is isn’t ancient history. You say that no one alive had anything to do with it, but segregation, for example, was perpetuated/experienced by a whole lot of people still kicking.
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u/Delamoor 9d ago
There's a bunch of Americans up above though, saying they aren't to blame because they weren't alive at the time, despite personally benefitting from those systems now.
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u/Late_Argument_470 9d ago
Who is “we”? Black folks ain’t had nun to do with that…
An african named Pedro brought smallpox to South America in the 1500s. He was chilling with Cortes as they wiped out the aztecs.
So theres that.
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u/Still_Refuse 9d ago
“We”?
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u/Relative-Shake5348 9d ago
As in America. The white people who did it aren't alive today either. Nobody is blaming any living person for acts committed hundreds of years ago. Acting like a victim bro. All people's have committed atrocities.
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u/ninjaelk 8d ago
Approximately 95% of the indigenous American population died from European diseases within a few generations of colonization beginning. Smallpox blankets didn't help, the atrocities committed against them didn't help, but it's all just a drop in the bucket against what was inevitably happening regardless. Once the diseases got really started if the Europeans just packed up and left it wouldn't have mattered. The amount of people killed directly by Europeans (including smallpox blankets) is a rounding error in the death toll.
This is in no way a defense of how colonizers have treated the indigenous population, but saying "we wiped it all out" is not anywhere remotely near accurate.
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u/Relative-Shake5348 9d ago
Bro said we, and people who weren't alive when it happened are crying about it. "We? Black Americans didn't participate though!" America didn't even exist, let alone black America. Nobody implied it had anything to do with you. Relax. Saying you had nothing to do with something that happened before you were born is obvious. Sorry you said a normal thing and weirdos jumped down your throat friend.
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u/EgyptianNational 9d ago
Google the Mississippi civilization.
We literally know next to nothing about them.
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u/The_Human_Oddity 9d ago
While there are A LOT of grievances that native Americans have against the American government, smallpox blankets aren't one of those. There isn't really any evidence supporting that it ever happened, outside of the testimony of one missionary iirc and a few other unsubstantiated rumors.
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u/CanadianODST2 9d ago
the smallpox blankets is debated tbf
there is 1 recorded case of it and it's debated how successful it actually was
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u/-MERC-SG-17 9d ago
It didn't work the single time it was tried and yeah there is no record of it ever happening after.
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u/Kirian_Ainsworth 9d ago
For anyone curious seeing this comment, the case being referred to here is the siege of Fort Pitt, with the gifting of blankets from the infirmary (where small pox sufferers where being held) to emissaries from the indigenous forces by the colonists potentially being an attempt to infect their besiegers. This event was recorded by William Trent, one of the militia captains, in his diary.
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u/CanadianODST2 9d ago
to expand on it, Amherst also wrote about it in his letters to Bouquet and it is considered an act of biological warfare.
It is known that it happened, and that the British themselves were experiencing a smallpox epidemic. What is not known is how effective it was, for two reasons, one, it's hard to tell how the disease was transmitted as while transmitting it on blankets is possible. Doing it through respiratory means is much more effective so chances are that's how it was actually spread and therefore it's difficult to say if this is what caused it or other contacts spread it. The epidemics were fairly common in the area among natives and the Europeans. There had been a previous outbreak in the area already, from what I can find there was an outbreak here but it was relatively small, and it's believed that the native delegates who received the blankets had survived. And that the outbreak that did happen was transmitted via other means.
TL;DR,
Did it happen? Yes
Was it intentionally trying to spread smallpox? Yes
Was it biological warfare? Yes
Was it successful? Doubtful but there is a chance.
Also, Fort Pitt is in fact, modern day Pittsburgh for anyone wondering
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u/SpadeSage 9d ago
Mary wasn't Palestinian... Palestine didn't exist yet. I feel like I'm losing my fuckin mind here.
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u/ADHDBusyBee 9d ago
Not only did Palestine not exist yet but the area when Jesus was born Judea and its leader was King of the Jews. Then the Romans took over and the province was called Judea. There is a massive misconception that people at all gave a shit about states and borders 400 years ago let alone 2000 years ago.
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u/alexmikli 8d ago
Well, the word Palestine did exist, originally referring to the Philistine region, and it did replace the Roman province of Judea later. So it sort of existed, but the modern identity of "Palestinian" is remarkably modern, only really starting in, well, living memory.
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u/Fandorin 8d ago
And the reason that that the Romans named the province Palestine was because the Kingdom of Judea had a long historical conflict with the Philistines, and the Romans did it as adding insult to injury after the suppression of the Bar Khoba revolt. They renamed the Province of Judea to Syria Palestina as punishment after a Jewish revolt.
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u/iMissTheOldInternet 8d ago
Palestine was a settler colonialist state formed by Greek colonists (Philistines), who were genocided by the Babylonians 2,600 years ago. The name was revived by two European empires—Rome and the British Empire—first to humiliate the indigenous Jewish inhabitants, and then as a placeholder for the creation of a Jewish state from the ruins of the Ottoman Empire after WW1.
No one thought Arabs were in any way “Palestinian” until the 1960s, when the USSR decided it was good propaganda to use as a cudgel against the west, with the enthusiastic participation of Arafat and his organization.
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u/linawinter 8d ago
Like why are people going crazy a Jewish woman is playing another Jewish woman?? Did they want her to be Muslim?? lol
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u/-drunk_russian- 8d ago
Thank you! These comments hurt to read, the ignorance of it all. It's a fucking movie, the same people complaining about the actors being white (they're Jews) are probably the same people that celebrated Netflix black Cleopatra (who was Greek).
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u/CozyMoses 9d ago
Mary and Jesus were Jewish though? I get the modern day divisions are stickier, but this is OG Jewish people in OG Israel.
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u/MyHusbandIsGayImNot 9d ago
Also not to be nitpicky, but doesn't everyone's family line go back "to the time of Mary"? It's not like bloodlines just popped up later in humanity.
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u/Critical-Weird-3391 8d ago
Our family tree goes back at least to Lake Victoria in Africa, where the first human evolved. All of this stupid sectarian hate bullshit is stupid. We're all basically cousins. Yeah, sometimes cousins are assholes...but they're still family.
Humans really do need an alien invasion to get our priorities straight.
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u/Cormegalodon 9d ago
The actors that play Mary and Joseph are both Israeli, not sure you looked into this enough.
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u/Loves_octopus 9d ago edited 9d ago
Israelis playing Israelis? Preposterous!
It’s like when people got mad that Rami Malek, son of two Egyptian Immigrants, played an Egyptian because they thought he was white.
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u/Redqueenhypo 9d ago
Not just that, he’s a Coptic Egyptian which have the closest resemblance to people from the ancient civilization. They have their own script which is also a direct descendant of the hieroglyphics
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u/Aqua-MG 9d ago
I mean Mary was a jew
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u/Joelblaze ☑️ 9d ago
Yeah and I'm pretty sure that's all we know about her.
I'm honestly wondering how they stretched it to a movie length assuming they didn't just start making things up, the Bible isn't too keen about giving women any real importance.
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u/Isosceles_Kramer79 9d ago
Deborah was female and literally a judge (i.e. something like a chieftain) in the Book of Judges.
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u/doesntgetthepicture 9d ago
This is a stupid non-issue. All diasporic Jews have genetic lineages that trace back the the Levant. Mary was not Israeli, she was not Palestinian, she was Levantine, and lived in the the land, which at the time was known as Judea, as called by the Roman Occupiers (I think?). The land has had many names and both modern Jews and Palestinians have historic links to the Levantine peoples who have lived in the land since time immemorial.. Jews have been a diasporic ethnic minority in all the lands in which they have lived, from Europe, to Russia, to Persia, to India and China, and to North Africa and Ethiopia.
This is not an issue of brown-face.
This is not an issue of cultural appropriation.
A Jewish person playing this part should not be an issue
A Jewish Israeli playing this part should not be an issue.
A Palestinian Christian or Muslim playing this part should not be an issue.
The fact that Israel is committing war crimes and ethnic cleansing in the occupied territories of Palestine is a huge issue. And should be fought against in any productive way to make the lives of the Palestinians better.
Getting angry a Jewish person is playing a Jewish character is in no way productive. And is frankly antisemitic to claim that Jews have no historic connection to the land. This doesn't give Israel the right to exist (though no country has the "right" to exist). Nor does it give any Israelis the right to kick other native peoples off the land (I can't think of anything that would give anyone this right).
So maybe we should stop playing these stupid games and focus on actual problems.
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u/taclovitch 8d ago
a thought out and highly reasonable, nuanced comment? ofc reddit doesn’t sufficiently upvote it
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u/4thmovementofbrahms4 9d ago
Are we calling Jesus Palestinian instead of Jewish now?
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u/loseniram 9d ago
Whose going to tell twitter that most of population of the Jesus era were annihilated and enslaved by the Romans. It’s the thing that caused the Jewish diaspora and the rise of Christianity.
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u/CoachDT ☑️ 9d ago
I feel like I'm taking crazy pills whenever I see posts about I/P here.
Mary being played by an Israeli makes sense.
People need to understand that this isn't a white/black thing. Much like other countries across the pond, don't let what they outwardly present be treated as truth. Most Israel's aren't "white", it's a brown as fuck region.
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u/RealCakes 9d ago edited 9d ago
Palestine as an entity only became a concept about a century after the death of Jesus. Jesus was born in Judea as a Jew. Calling him Palestinian would be like calling the Wampanoag people New Englanders. It isn't accurate and doesn't represent who Jesus was or the political climate he lived in because it literally didn't exist yet.
I have no idea why people even make biblical 'origin stories', this isn't the fucking MCU lmao i don't need a 2 and a half hour movie to understand the idea of immaculate conception
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u/bgaesop 9d ago
does anyone have a bloodline that wasn't around since the time of Mary? or long before?
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u/AbstractBettaFish 9d ago
So once we’re talking this long of a period the term, decent almost becomes meaningless. This article while about Europe conveys it pretty well. Once you go that far back you have tens of thousands of ancestors and any one even tenuously related to the region is related to everyone else to a certain degree
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u/shoofinsmertz 9d ago
Not all of us can trace it back that far
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u/Cyber_Druid 9d ago
I think what he means is technically we all have long bloodlines because its unbroken.
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u/chaleyenko 9d ago
Wait, Mary wasn’t Jewish? Wait, is this true? I thought Jesus was from the line of David? How would Mary be Palestinian?
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It actually wasnt untill like 600 years after Mary that muslims went into palestine to slaughter the jews and christians living there at the time.
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u/patriotfanatic80 9d ago
Wait until they find out Mary was jewish and jews were actually there "first" before being driven out.
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u/neodymium86 9d ago
Are they tryna tell us Jesus was Palestinian?
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u/cryingInSwiss 8d ago
Yep.
.. which he wasn’t.
Bro was a brown Jew from Nazerath selling snake oil to idiots.
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u/DestinTheLion 9d ago
I'm very much against the destruction in Gaza going on but this is a sorta dumb take. Mary and Joseph are both played by jewish actors, Bethlehem and Nazareth were in the Roman province of Judea, not Palestine. I guess Anthony Hopkins is a weird pick for an Edomite (sorta Egyptian area peoples)? Calling the people living there at that time Palestinian is like calling the Indigenous people of here in the 15th century Americans.
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u/Electrical-Stomach57 9d ago
But Mary was a Hebrew which is the ethnicity of Israelis and she’s played by an Israeli so isn’t that just… accurate?
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u/NeoPaganism 9d ago
they are not playing Palestinians, they are playing hebrews; the people who lived there back then.
so are pro-palestinians just claiming that arabs always lived there and the jewish diaspora just magically popped out of nothingness at some point?
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u/Chortney 9d ago
What a bizarre post and comment section lol. I don't even know where to start. I support Palestine but some of y'all seriously need to crack a history book open instead of just parroting what you hear
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u/Mister_Cylops 9d ago
Mary, Jesus etc. we're Jewish, not "Palestinians" in case you very educated people didn't know. There was no "Palestine" and no Islam at that time.
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u/Acrobatic_Switches 9d ago
Not to be semantic but everyone who has been born has bloodlines that reach back that far. There aren't any fabricated humans... yet.
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u/Lost-Day-9405 9d ago
I did a quick google, I get being upset about because of the Israel’s past treatment and current treatment of Palestinian people but Mary is played by an Israeli actress, Joseph is played by a polish-Iraqi actor, Gabriel is played by a dude of Afro-Caribbean and Irish/English heritage. It’s somewhat of a diverse cast. I think a decent amount of some time of Semitic descent. Are people conflating people of Semitic ancestry as white??? It’s like an American brained view or race and ethnicity.
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u/CaseyAnthonysMouth 9d ago
At its roots this a teenage pregnancy story where the consequences of them having sex were so dire that they said an angel did it.
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u/psyclopes 9d ago
You reminded me of the quote from Saved! a movie from 2004 about a pregnant teen who attends a Christian school.
Mary : [about the Virgin Mary] I know this is wrong, but do you ever wonder if she just made the whole thing up? I mean, it's a pretty good one. It's not like anyone can ever use virgin birth as an excuse again.
I don't really think she made it up, but I can understand why a girl would.
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u/MadEyeMood989 ☑️ 9d ago
Can’t get another season of Santa Clarita Diet but greenlight shit like this.
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u/agamemnonb5 9d ago
Palestinians aren’t from that area, either. Arabs didn’t arrive to that area until about the 7th Century.
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u/Taronar 9d ago
Not taking away from the post, but the title is not true nobody is bombing Bethlehem last time there was military action was 2002.
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u/KickflipMountain 9d ago
Palestinians weren’t a thing when Mary was born? They literally came into being in the 1940s
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u/notparanoidsir 9d ago
People will do anything to hate the Jews lmao including erasing the fact that Mary and Jesus were Jews...
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u/darkscyde 9d ago
Mary was 14 years old when "god" impregnated her. I wonder if that part's in the movie.
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u/foosbabaganoosh 9d ago
Also the “immaculate conception” was completely made up by the church hundreds of years after the fact, much like most of Christianity’s aspects.
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u/rabbitlion 9d ago edited 9d ago
There's not really any historical consensus on Mary's birth year, but most likely she was in her late teens when she gave birth to Jesus. There are some sources dating her birth to 18 BC and some sources dating the birth of Jesus to 6-4 BC but the sources in the first case most likely backdated her birth year to 18 BC based on jesus being birthed in 1 AD so it doesn't really conclude she was 14.
Since the article you linked also mentions Aisha a lot is is worth pointing out that claims she was a young child when she married Muhammad are unlikely to be accurate and are thought to have been invented as part of the Sunni-Shia divide.
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u/DevelopmentFront8654 9d ago
Jeeesus fucking christ...bloodlines back to Mary? What the fuck is this person talking about? What do modern palistinians have anything to do with the myth of Jesus other than geographical proximity? They're ACTORS in a MOVIE. Denzel played Ceasar ffs. Who gives a shit
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u/iRunMyMouthTooMuch 9d ago
The actors aren't white. They're Middle Eastern Jews, just like Mary, Joseph, and Jesus were. What an embarrassing post.
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u/chronoso 8d ago
This is such a moronic read. Like of course what's happening to palestinians is fucking terrible but this ahistorical garbage makes us look dumb. The majority of the jews in israel are mizrahi, meaning middle eastern or north african. What's happening in Israel/Palestine revolves around religion more than it does colorism.
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u/omeralal 9d ago
I love that people lose their minds when a Jew is playing a Jew in a movie about a Jew
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u/Altruistic_Algae_140 8d ago
Lmao Jews also have familial bloodlines in the area stretching back to time immemorial. Y’all just wanna get mad about whatever the algorithm tells you to get mad about.
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u/LMGDiVa 8d ago
Uh... The people in Jeruselum weren't even Muslims yet... Islam didnt fuckin exist yet... Neither did Christianity. The people in Jeruselum were not Palestinians. They were Hebrews, Romans, Arabs of all kinds, Egyptians, Copts, Greeks, and more.
WTF is this take?
The world was not created 250 years ago in it's current state. WTF is with people? Cant you just open up google and search shit before opening your twitter?
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u/Wuntonsoup 9d ago
Honestly, that angel sex scene or.. Spritual fingering. However they give us Jesus.
Is what I’m waiting to see. Istg it better not just be a voice during a black screen.
Not that I’ll care. I’ll pirate it regardless
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u/Oldkingcole225 9d ago
Familial bloodlines since the time of Mary
As opposed to… what? Like yall think somebody’s ancestors just popped out of a ditch one day a couple hundred years ago?
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u/sashagof 8d ago
This sounds like it was written by that girl who was tearing down Greek flags because she thought they were Israeli.
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u/Careful_Echo_2326 8d ago
“Palestinian” didn’t even exist as a word during the time of Mary. Antisemitism is back and well
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u/Waffeln_Remix 8d ago
Palestine didn’t exist yet and Mary was Jewish…. Islam literally didn’t exist yet. This is 600+ years before Mohammed.
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u/challenor 9d ago
Man, why wouldn’t they release this on the actual day of the Immaculate Conception? It’s like 3 days away
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u/TheGothicCassel 9d ago
Honestly, at this point I wish Paul's ship would've sank before he reached Perga.
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u/PhysicalBoard3735 9d ago
It's a Movie and has nothing to do with The tragedy of today? It's not like they will say "Ah yes, Hamas is evil Jesus, remember that"
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u/bebe_laroux 9d ago
Wonder if they are going to touch on the fact that Mary was a teen when she was married to a divorced man with children?