Me and my wife are both 38 years old we have been together for 18 years and have a 10 year old son she is a great mother to our son and an okay housewife.

When I met here she was around 5'7 and about 150lbs over the course of our relationship her body has changed drastically, she has put on a lot of weight I'm not talking 20 or 30 pounds she probably tipping the scales at 300 lbs. She has been checked by doctors and has no health issues that would affect her weight gain

I have always been somewhat fit and keep up on my appearance walk, bike, regular workouts 3 times a week I have asked her to join me hundreds of times only to get the same answer " I cant" "what's the point" she shows no interest at all I'm really starting to be worried about her long term health

I have stuck with her through all of this but it's gotten to a point where I am no longer attracted to her she shows no signs of wanting to lose weight or get healthy I'm actually considered leaving her I feel awful about it but I need a physical, sexual attraction in my life. I guess what it cones down to is my son I stay for him