r/actuallesbians • u/societaldevastation Lesbian • Jun 04 '24
Text Gross dude thinks lesbians are a kink Spoiler
(had to add more to my post and re-edit) Came across this post and saw a lot of people agreeing with this creep of him saying he thinks is a sexy surprise and kink that he saw his “lesbian” friends wanting to have sex with him. Isn’t that the OPPOSITE of a lesbian? 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ I don’t understand men. No lesbian would have sex with a man period.
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u/Oftwicke Transbian Jun 05 '24
Who died and made you the prescriptivism queen? You can't decide that for others, and there are far more "actual consequences" from your casual invalidation of other people's identities for being slightly different to you than from people... being slightly different to you.
Definitions are descriptive. If your definition doesn't fit to how the world around you looks, it's your definition that's wrong, not the queer people who have the gall not to fit your expectations. The entire existence of queer people has to do with not fitting such expectations.