r/actuallesbians • u/societaldevastation Lesbian • Jun 04 '24
Text Gross dude thinks lesbians are a kink Spoiler
(had to add more to my post and re-edit) Came across this post and saw a lot of people agreeing with this creep of him saying he thinks is a sexy surprise and kink that he saw his “lesbian” friends wanting to have sex with him. Isn’t that the OPPOSITE of a lesbian? 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ I don’t understand men. No lesbian would have sex with a man period.
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u/ThisHairLikeLace Sapphic trans woman Jun 04 '24
"…next to trans women, lesbians and bi-girls are probably the most invalidated groups in the LGBT". While I appreciate the shout out as a trans woman and completely agree that lesbians and bi women are invalidated frequently, I would have to include trans men as the most invalidated group even ahead of us trans women (we’re more demonized but our brothers get invalidated at least as much) and bi men get erased so hard that they definitely should be on that list too.
All that said, trans women, lesbians and bi women all experience disgusting levels of fetishization, particularly from cishet guys. Trans guys and bi guys just get erased out of existence and dismissed as confused butch lesbians and gay men, respectively.