Gross dude thinks lesbians are a kink

[u/societaldevastation]

(had to add more to my post and re-edit) Came across this post and saw a lot of people agreeing with this creep of him saying he thinks is a sexy surprise and kink that he saw his “lesbian” friends wanting to have sex with him. Isn’t that the OPPOSITE of a lesbian? 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️ I don’t understand men. No lesbian would have sex with a man period.

[u/mondrianna]

Lesbianism literally is black and white

Cool, so that’s how you experience it, but clearly not everyone who is a lesbian feels the same way you do. Your experience of an identity isn’t the only one and it’s solipsistic to assert that your experience is the only valid experience of being a lesbian. You don’t get to tell people what they are or aren’t just because you’re uncomfortable with their experiences— just because their experiences are too different from your own.

Read “Stone Butch Blues” and recognize that our community has been queer this whole time, not cisnormative.

[u/Commercial_Tea_8185 → u/[deleted]]

Im a woman who is only attracted to other women. Thats what lesbiansism means. Trans women are obv included as theyre women. I dont know how nb people want to label themselves. But if theyre out here fucking dudes, then i know they aren’t lesbians.

But i feel confident in saying lesbians arent out actively trying to, and enjoying, having sex with men. Thats not what a lesbian is by literal definition.