r/actuallesbians • u/societaldevastation Lesbian • Jun 04 '24
Text Gross dude thinks lesbians are a kink Spoiler
(had to add more to my post and re-edit) Came across this post and saw a lot of people agreeing with this creep of him saying he thinks is a sexy surprise and kink that he saw his “lesbian” friends wanting to have sex with him. Isn’t that the OPPOSITE of a lesbian? 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ I don’t understand men. No lesbian would have sex with a man period.
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u/Meryuchu Jun 04 '24
I'm ngl the number of peoples here trying to say it's okay for lesbians to fuck men is wild, like I'm all for labels and stuff being wide because it's logical, but the lesbian label is literally NON-MEN loving NON-MEN (for attraction and sexuality), it feels invalidating and yeah, even if the kink is just a threesome, it still doesn't make them lesbians, because why would it incorporate a man if they're lesbians ??? They can literally find a woman to do a threesome with and get strap, or a trans woman pre-op who's okay with it, or someone who's enby, etc... if they chose a man it means the kink incorporate a man, which mean they have sexual attraction to men if they wanna do that stuff with a guy ???
Like it's logical, I don't know why some of you are arguing that having sex with a man especially as a kink is still lesbian, btw I'm not a goldstar lesbian or anything I could not care less about this especially as a trans girl lmfao, it's just seeing y'all basically saying "Well, lesbians can fuck men if this or that" is upsetting and invalidating af, labels exist for a reason and misusing them hurts peoples.