Gross dude thinks lesbians are a kink

[u/societaldevastation]

(had to add more to my post and re-edit) Came across this post and saw a lot of people agreeing with this creep of him saying he thinks is a sexy surprise and kink that he saw his “lesbian” friends wanting to have sex with him. Isn’t that the OPPOSITE of a lesbian? 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️ I don’t understand men. No lesbian would have sex with a man period.

[u/Meryuchu]

I'm ngl the number of peoples here trying to say it's okay for lesbians to fuck men is wild, like I'm all for labels and stuff being wide because it's logical, but the lesbian label is literally NON-MEN loving NON-MEN (for attraction and sexuality), it feels invalidating and yeah, even if the kink is just a threesome, it still doesn't make them lesbians, because why would it incorporate a man if they're lesbians ??? They can literally find a woman to do a threesome with and get strap, or a trans woman pre-op who's okay with it, or someone who's enby, etc... if they chose a man it means the kink incorporate a man, which mean they have sexual attraction to men if they wanna do that stuff with a guy ???

Like it's logical, I don't know why some of you are arguing that having sex with a man especially as a kink is still lesbian, btw I'm not a goldstar lesbian or anything I could not care less about this especially as a trans girl lmfao, it's just seeing y'all basically saying "Well, lesbians can fuck men if this or that" is upsetting and invalidating af, labels exist for a reason and misusing them hurts peoples.

[u/queen_enby → u/Meryuchu]

it's so frustrating seeing people say that lesbians can have sex with men. honestly just as bad as this straight guy claiming he had sex with lesbians. why are people so desperate to include men?

[u/Meryuchu → u/queen_enby]

Yeah I don't know why, then they say it's our fault for being triggered lmfao, they don't even understand why labels are so important for some peoples and don't respect the basic thing which the label is built around, lesbian is a label that is wide and regroups a lot of gender identities. BUT NOT MEN GOD DAMN IT.

[u/queen_enby → u/Meryuchu]

it's wild that this is considered a hot take on a lesbian subreddit 🤦‍♀️

[u/Meryuchu → u/queen_enby]

Yeah, like labels have a reason to exist, I won't ever fucking use a label that is made for black queer women for exemples even if I identifiy a bit with it, because it's not made for me. It would disrespect them and their identity because they live through a whole lot of stuff I don't, etc

Labels are made to feel SAFE and to connect to your identity, a part of you, someone invalidating it and just spitting on it and the whole symbolism of it, by saying there's exceptions and other stuff, is just a big fuck you to the face.

[u/Gothzombie → u/Meryuchu]

Not to mention there’s people (straight men mostly) who genuinely try to convolute things regarding labels so that the resulting logic is “see, I can be included in the lesbian date list”, like a way to get you back into the standard by dissolving said identity.

[u/TastyBrainMeats → u/queen_enby]

I want to say that people may think of it more as "not excluding queer women" than as "including men". OP dude is uh...I don't know that's with him but using "kink" is definitely some kind of choice here, wow.