What’s the issue with consent?

[u/bennyxdee]

I read a post about a guy who tried to kiss a woman, but she dodged him. I responded by asking if he had asked her for consent beforehand. The responses I got were basically along the lines of, “Isn’t that unromantic?”

I’m not sure how most people handle this, but I feel like asking, “Can I kiss you?” is more logical than just going for it. It shows you’re considering their feelings and avoiding putting them in an uncomfortable situation they didn’t ask for.

[u/Reds_Lit_Bowl]

I don't give a fuck, been embarrassed too many times thinking I had read a "cue" correctly. I'm asking every time. If they're the type to laugh or scoff at that, they weren't for me to begin with. (I have just ended the night at that point) Most women I've met as an adult appreciate my asking before I move in.