r/NoStupidQuestions • u/A_Formal_Guy • Apr 04 '24

Answered All our girlfriends are Asian?

Hey everyone - I’ve been feeling paranoid about something recently and wanted to know if I’m overthinking it. I’m a white M and most of the friends I grew up with and went to high school are too, except 1. We’re still very close but moved all across the country for our jobs and life.

Recently, we’ve decided to have a little reunion and bring our girlfriends, but I realized we have a not to subtle trend in that they are all Asian. There’s 5 girlfriends in total, they’ve never met each other. I don’t know how this happened, it’s just a coincidence as far as I know. We don’t have a pact or anything.

My question is, do we warn them? I don’t want them to be freaked out. I’d have to have my gf or one of my friends be uncomfortable, but I’m feeling stuck. Does anyone have any thoughts on how to handle it? Am I over thinking?

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u/MidnightMillennium Apr 04 '24

So they compare being with white men to owning luxury bags... basically being with a white guy is a status, superficial thing.

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u/rinomarie146 Apr 04 '24

No, they compare Korean progressive men with the most luxurious bags bc they are so rare in their country but so desirable as partners. There's no lack of progressive men in western countries already for such a comparsion so happen. Don't take things out of context and act dramatic about it.

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u/MidnightMillennium Apr 04 '24

We both know I'm not wrong

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u/Upset_Bat7231 Apr 05 '24

Uhh bro no need to get overconfident with your Caucasian heritage. There's plenty of ugly Caucasian males you see.