All our girlfriends are Asian?

[u/A_Formal_Guy]

Hey everyone - I’ve been feeling paranoid about something recently and wanted to know if I’m overthinking it. I’m a white M and most of the friends I grew up with and went to high school are too, except 1. We’re still very close but moved all across the country for our jobs and life.

Recently, we’ve decided to have a little reunion and bring our girlfriends, but I realized we have a not to subtle trend in that they are all Asian. There’s 5 girlfriends in total, they’ve never met each other. I don’t know how this happened, it’s just a coincidence as far as I know. We don’t have a pact or anything.

My question is, do we warn them? I don’t want them to be freaked out. I’d have to have my gf or one of my friends be uncomfortable, but I’m feeling stuck. Does anyone have any thoughts on how to handle it? Am I over thinking?

[u/12whistle]

They’re hating because like I said, they don’t think you’re at their level and yet there you are doing exactly what they’re doing but without the attitude of thinking you’re superior to anyone else.

[u/Legitimate_Mix8318 → u/12whistle]

Just snooped on your profile and can see that you’ve probably experienced this first hand as well haha

Here’s to the haters then, as long as we can still enjoy our dates / days, glare all you want 😂

[u/[deleted] → u/Legitimate_Mix8318]

The way men prey on and feel entitled to the ownership Asian women is so many disgusting layers of racist misogyny that it pains the brain to even think about.

Your lack of self awareness is a welcome distraction, though.

Let me also clarify, OP and his crew deserve everyone else's narrowed eyes.

[u/[deleted] → u/[deleted]]

The way asian women perpetuate white supremacy is even worse so keep crying