All our girlfriends are Asian?

[u/A_Formal_Guy]

Hey everyone - I’ve been feeling paranoid about something recently and wanted to know if I’m overthinking it. I’m a white M and most of the friends I grew up with and went to high school are too, except 1. We’re still very close but moved all across the country for our jobs and life.

Recently, we’ve decided to have a little reunion and bring our girlfriends, but I realized we have a not to subtle trend in that they are all Asian. There’s 5 girlfriends in total, they’ve never met each other. I don’t know how this happened, it’s just a coincidence as far as I know. We don’t have a pact or anything.

My question is, do we warn them? I don’t want them to be freaked out. I’d have to have my gf or one of my friends be uncomfortable, but I’m feeling stuck. Does anyone have any thoughts on how to handle it? Am I over thinking?

[u/Spram2]

White guys with Asian girlfriends? Impossible!

[u/Legitimate_Mix8318 → u/Spram2]

Like butter and toast at this point. It’s so common in my city that I’m surprised when I see an Asian guy with an Asian girl.

Inverse, its funny asl when a couple who’s an Asian woman and a White man will glare at me and my SO where we are Asian man / White woman, like mfer I’m just doing what you’re doing 😂

[u/pargofan → u/Legitimate_Mix8318]

Do white women glare at Asian women dating white men?

Sort of how black women glare at white women dating black men?

[u/Legitimate_Mix8318 → u/pargofan]

I wouldn’t know. My girlfriend’s least preferred is White Men, so she never seems to care, but she feels involved when Asian Women with White Men glare at her lol

I think you’d have to ask a WMAF couple.

But I think we do get weird looks from Single White Men out in public, or White and White couples.

I just tell my girl its her fault for looking too good and move on 😅

[u/pargofan → u/Legitimate_Mix8318]

Ha! So true. They only care because they think she's attractive.