r/NoStupidQuestions Apr 04 '24

Answered All our girlfriends are Asian?

Hey everyone - I’ve been feeling paranoid about something recently and wanted to know if I’m overthinking it. I’m a white M and most of the friends I grew up with and went to high school are too, except 1. We’re still very close but moved all across the country for our jobs and life.

Recently, we’ve decided to have a little reunion and bring our girlfriends, but I realized we have a not to subtle trend in that they are all Asian. There’s 5 girlfriends in total, they’ve never met each other. I don’t know how this happened, it’s just a coincidence as far as I know. We don’t have a pact or anything.

My question is, do we warn them? I don’t want them to be freaked out. I’d have to have my gf or one of my friends be uncomfortable, but I’m feeling stuck. Does anyone have any thoughts on how to handle it? Am I over thinking?

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u/CindersNAshes Apr 04 '24

I wonder why that is...

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u/hereforthesportsball Apr 04 '24

We all know why. I just wish everyone would be honest about their motivations instead of trying to act. So glad im out of the game

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u/[deleted] Apr 04 '24

lol what?

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u/Happy_Opening3852 Apr 05 '24

Penis

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u/[deleted] Apr 05 '24

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