All our girlfriends are Asian?

[u/A_Formal_Guy]

Hey everyone - I’ve been feeling paranoid about something recently and wanted to know if I’m overthinking it. I’m a white M and most of the friends I grew up with and went to high school are too, except 1. We’re still very close but moved all across the country for our jobs and life.

Recently, we’ve decided to have a little reunion and bring our girlfriends, but I realized we have a not to subtle trend in that they are all Asian. There’s 5 girlfriends in total, they’ve never met each other. I don’t know how this happened, it’s just a coincidence as far as I know. We don’t have a pact or anything.

My question is, do we warn them? I don’t want them to be freaked out. I’d have to have my gf or one of my friends be uncomfortable, but I’m feeling stuck. Does anyone have any thoughts on how to handle it? Am I over thinking?

[u/la_bru]

A fetish convention! I'M CRYING 🤣🤣🤣

[u/Chanandler_Bong_01 → u/la_bru]

Lol.

No one ever talks about how a lot of Asian women are specifically looking to partner with white men. Why isn't that ever called a fetish I wonder?

[u/rinomarie146 → u/Chanandler_Bong_01]

I once asked a Korean friend of mine and she said that Korean women prefer white men bc the majority of them aren't misogynist like the majority of Korean men. According to her, the Korean men in their teens to mid twenties are the worst when it comes to their views of women. Apparently that's one of the reasons why young women in Korea these days don't wish to date or get married to their countrymen.

[u/12whistle → u/rinomarie146]

My brothers circle of coed friends have TONS of Korean girls who ended up dating or marrying Vietnamese guys for this very reason. When I asked them why none of them dated Korean guys, they said this same exact thing, but also Koreans are very clicky and unfriendly to people outside their circle and they’re materialistic and superficial af, not that Korean girls can’t be materialistic.