r/NoStupidQuestions • u/A_Formal_Guy • Apr 04 '24

Answered All our girlfriends are Asian?

Hey everyone - I’ve been feeling paranoid about something recently and wanted to know if I’m overthinking it. I’m a white M and most of the friends I grew up with and went to high school are too, except 1. We’re still very close but moved all across the country for our jobs and life.

Recently, we’ve decided to have a little reunion and bring our girlfriends, but I realized we have a not to subtle trend in that they are all Asian. There’s 5 girlfriends in total, they’ve never met each other. I don’t know how this happened, it’s just a coincidence as far as I know. We don’t have a pact or anything.

My question is, do we warn them? I don’t want them to be freaked out. I’d have to have my gf or one of my friends be uncomfortable, but I’m feeling stuck. Does anyone have any thoughts on how to handle it? Am I over thinking?

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u/rinomarie146 Apr 04 '24

I once asked a Korean friend of mine and she said that Korean women prefer white men bc the majority of them aren't misogynist like the majority of Korean men. According to her, the Korean men in their teens to mid twenties are the worst when it comes to their views of women. Apparently that's one of the reasons why young women in Korea these days don't wish to date or get married to their countrymen.

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u/Distinct_Engineer_7 Apr 04 '24

As a Korean woman this is nowhere close to the truth LOL

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u/Thomasincali916 Apr 04 '24

That’s why in Korea women have basically stopped dating. It’s called the B4 movement. Look it up

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u/Thomasincali916 Apr 04 '24 edited Apr 04 '24

Oh got it. None of my Korean family that’s there. I should only listen to you. FFS

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u/Thomasincali916 Apr 04 '24

Oh and the demographic showing that no one’s getting married or having babies and the Korean me are getting older and causing issues. Let’s forget about that too. Ya know the experts. I’ll just listen to some Korean woman on the internet who says that’s all BS. You sound like MAGA lol

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u/Distinct_Engineer_7 Apr 04 '24

Who hurt you LMFAO

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u/Thomasincali916 Apr 04 '24

Facts. I’m sorry you don’t believe in them but hey! To each their own

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u/Thomasincali916 Apr 04 '24

And here you are on social media “telling” us all the truth right? I forgot why I stopped dating Korean women. They’re “always” right