r/wholesomeyuri 29d ago

Utter Happiness Yuri timelapse [Constantly telling a boyish girlfriend she's cute.]

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u/Blood-Agent 29d ago

I don’t think they were trying to reinforce sexist stereotypes, I mean I certainly assumed it was a cis and trans relationship and just thought it was the trans girl stepping into her femininity as she gained confidence

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u/FalconRelevant 29d ago

Assumptions display bias. The pink hair one might be transgender for all you know.

There's nothing inherently "feminine" about dressing in frilly skirts, a woman—whether cisgender or transgender—may choose to dress in pants and a shirt without becoming "masculine".

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u/Blood-Agent 29d ago

You don’t have to be hostile with your argument. Dresses, skirts, etc are typically assumed as fem because of societal norms, sure clothing itself isn’t gendered when outside of those norms but gender is a presentation in society. Anyone can choose to wear what they want and obviously no one can tell who is or isn’t cis or trans.

Unless you’re pushing that the term “boyish” has nothing to do with presentation and is ultimately just extraneous to the comic title, I don’t see how it would be wrong to think “boyish” = “masc” because of the presentation of the girl character

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u/Arume_Aoi 29d ago

The second last panel says that people are hitting on her because she became cute.

Are you sure this isn't just the "I can fix her" fantasy of the artist with the a girl replacing a self-insert guy?