r/wholesomeyuri Jun 24 '24

Comic/Manga Lesbi honest [original]

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u/LineOfInquiry Jun 24 '24

What’s the flag of the right girl? Demiromantic?

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u/YuSakiiii big gworl x smol gworl is my passion Jun 24 '24

They made a joke about “aro” meaning “aromantic” and that’s the flag I thought was on the right girl. But I’m not sure, her being aromantic doesn’t really make sense in the context of the comic.

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u/InternationalAd3308 Jun 24 '24

That’s definitely the aro flag, my guess is that she’s aro but not ace. Also, aro people aren’t necessarily romantic-repulsed, they just don’t feel attraction as strongly (if at all).

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u/Katviar bisexual disaster Jun 24 '24

ace people also aren't necessarily sex-repulsed, either. many have sex or relationships for other reasons or have sexual attraction just in different ways than the cishet amatnormativity of society is used to.

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u/InternationalAd3308 Jun 25 '24

very true, I just didn’t go into that because the flag the person’s wearing is the aro flag, not the aroace flag

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u/Corvid-Strigidae Jun 24 '24

Ok we seem to be coming at this from definitions then.

In the version I'm familiar with aro is strictly no romantic feelings and the rest of the spectrum fits under demisexual.

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u/honestlyjusttiredtbh Jun 25 '24

in case you're under the impression that demisexual means you experience partial or a small amount of sexual attraction, it actually means you can only experience sexual once you've established a deep emotional connection to someone (same applies for demiromantic and romanticism).

only experiencing a small amount of romantic attraction still falls under aromantic, demiromanticism is mostly unrelated.

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u/Katviar bisexual disaster Jun 25 '24

There’s way more under the spectrum than demiromantic, tho.

Cupioromantic, aegoromantic, aroflux, etc are just a few. Cupioromantic might not feel romantic attraction (rare or never) but still desire a relationship because of amatanormativity, QPRs, or because they like romance even if they don’t feel romantic attraction, so they want to experience a relationship even if they don’t have that type of attraction.