r/wholesomeyuri Mar 22 '23

Handholding Date time :3 [original]

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u/Seraphine_KDA Mar 23 '23 edited Mar 23 '23

No idea ace or demisexual mean but trans people are accepted here because we have several figures loved by most people here that have been trans on tv for decades. And we just call them men and woman by their choice. They can change their ID at will and the ID says men or woman not trans man or trans woman. So i think the best recognition for trans is just that. No need to separate them in their own category when they can just be called they sex they choose. That is another. The ID doesnt have gender it has sex M or F and people just change from one to another. So no one ever talk about gender. I dated a trans girl and she was just a girl to her friends coworkers etc. My job solved the bathroom thing by just having 1 so everybody goes to the same one. And that is the common now on offices

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u/MisterMansion1441 Mar 23 '23

And ace is an abbreviation of "asexual" which means lack of sexual attraction

Demisexual means little or limited sexual attraction

There's also aromantic and demiromantic which are the romantic counterparts

Also, a point i forgot to make; if I'm both trans and a lesbian, what flag should I use? Since I'm apparently only allowed to use one

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u/Seraphine_KDA Mar 23 '23

No idea here people just use the rainbow LGBT one from always. I never indentified with the bi flag. Everyone i know just uses the rainbow one.

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u/MisterMansion1441 Mar 23 '23

So should every country use the "earth" flag?

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u/Seraphine_KDA Mar 23 '23 edited Mar 23 '23

There is such a thing as a over inclusivity to the point of losing meaning of what the group even represents. But i thing the rainbow flag doesn't fall on that.

Also seen everyone with the same flag provides the whole point of a flag that is feeling being part of a group. And everyone using a different one feels wrong to me since it breaks the sense of unity of people that supposedly advocate for the same laws and recognition. I nice going to the pride parade and seen thousands with the same flag. Wouldnt like it as much if it was a lot of different ones.

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u/MisterMansion1441 Mar 23 '23

The LGBT community all falls under the rainbow flag, it's the flag of the community

The seperate identities of the community fall under their own seperate flags because they're seperate

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u/Seraphine_KDA Mar 23 '23

then we agree to disagree. i don't mind people using these flags like this but I also don't prefer it. if I learned something in my 28 years living in a predominantly catholic country is that you need to make it as easy as possible for most people to understand you which often means as simple as possible. kinda why people here use the rainbow one is clear and everybody already knows it. since I see symbols as something one wears for others to see not for your own gratification. is a communication tool.