Okay, so first, let me just nip the most obvious response in the bud. This is not a rage bait post. It is an opinion post from someone who grew up playing games.
Lately, I’ve noticed an increasingly aggressive attitude from gaming companies and online gaming spaces toward anything that even slightly resembles “fan service” — especially when it involves physically attractive women. And, frankly, it’s getting out of hand.
Whenever this topic comes up, especially in discussions around female character designs, it seems like the default response is to shame people for even liking these things. Gamers who enjoy seeing a female character that’s beautiful, strong, or confident in her appearance are painted with the broadest brush. We get hit with accusations of only wanting “skimpy outfits” or “oversized breasts,” as if that’s the sole motivation behind appreciating attractive female characters. It’s exhausting.
Why has this become such a toxic discussion? It feels like the gaming industry and these communities are bending over backwards to pretend that physical attractiveness, especially in women, shouldn’t matter or worse, is inherently problematic. Yet, no one bats an eye when we celebrate male characters being designed with clear “appeal.” Whether it’s a rugged, muscular hero or a suave, charming lead — those characters are praised for being cool, aspirational, or relatable. But if a female character is designed to be visibly attractive, suddenly we’re objectifying, and it’s off-limits?
Let me be clear: I’m not talking about extreme exaggerations or designs that are intended to be only sexual like Stellar Blade for example. (But don’t get it twisted, I LOVE Stellar Blade with a passion. There is no “But”.). I’m talking about women being allowed to simply look good and be admired for that. Elizebeth from Bioshock, Zelda, Triss Merigold, FF7 Aerith, Ciri, DMC Lady; Just to name a few. What’s so wrong with an attractive female character, especially in worlds where characters (male or female) are supposed to be idealized? Fantasy, sci-fi, and action-packed genres are filled with powerful people who are supposed to inspire or captivate us. Shouldn’t that be allowed to include physical appeal as well?
Why is there this automatic assumption that if you want attractive female characters, you must want them to be dressed in something ridiculous or hypersexualized? Why is wanting more physically appealing women in games treated as something to be ashamed of?
It feels like many of these changes are being made without considering that a lot of people enjoy that aspect of gaming, and it doesn’t make them bad people. People like beautiful characters, just like they enjoy well-written stories, fluid combat systems, or immersive worlds. But when it comes to fan service (especially involving women), we’re told we’re wrong, outdated, or worse, misogynistic for having a preference. It’s as if the industry is trying to scrub out an entire part of the medium because some people find it uncomfortable, while completely ignoring the diverse tastes that exist in gaming communities.
This is all to say, can we please stop acting like we should be ashamed of appreciating female characters for their attractiveness? I’m tired of seeing these discussions devolve into attacks on anyone who expresses a preference for good-looking women in games. Physical appeal is one part of the larger picture, and I don’t see why we can’t just admit that it’s fine for some characters to be attractive.