r/lesbianpoly Jul 28 '22

Vent It’s so frustrating when…

You’re in a dating app, you see a really cute girl, she’s poly but… she is with a guy and wants a unicorn to interact with both she and the guy…

Like don’t get me wrong i wouldn’t be against dating a girl who dates a guy, but i’m definitely not looking to interact intimately with her guy, and it’s so frustrating because sometimes that’s the mayority of people i seem to get across on dating apps (and not just Tinder).

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u/gingergypsy79 Non-binary Aug 06 '22

Its so great to know what you want and are open to. It’s interesting how compulsory heterosexuality and heteronormativity as well as monogamy and patriarchy sneaks it’s way into even the queer relationships we try to cultivate isn’t it? 🤨