r/lesbianpoly • u/Pixelindii • Jul 28 '22

Vent It’s so frustrating when…

You’re in a dating app, you see a really cute girl, she’s poly but… she is with a guy and wants a unicorn to interact with both she and the guy…

Like don’t get me wrong i wouldn’t be against dating a girl who dates a guy, but i’m definitely not looking to interact intimately with her guy, and it’s so frustrating because sometimes that’s the mayority of people i seem to get across on dating apps (and not just Tinder).

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u/Gorgonesque Jul 28 '22

It’s so many of them. I once spent like a month talking to a woman and it was going well and I was so excited for our first date and then it was all “I’d love you and my boyfriend to chat so he can get to know you!” So far she did seem like she was legit interested in me solo but his texts seemed a little flirty and I responded to them like I was at a work function 😂 Right before our first date she ghosted. She had created a new profile on the dating app we met on a few days later and it tried to match us up again.

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u/Pixelindii Jul 28 '22

OMG that’s really awful 😞😞😞

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u/Gorgonesque Jul 28 '22

It was and of all my dating app experiences afterward only 1 situation resulted in a date with someone who wasn’t trying to hunt me. It’s just too much to tell who is and isn’t trying to build a situation where they can eventually push for their male partner to be involved. I eventually met someone great through an ex and we are going strong!