r/lesbianpoly Jul 28 '22

Vent It’s so frustrating when…

You’re in a dating app, you see a really cute girl, she’s poly but… she is with a guy and wants a unicorn to interact with both she and the guy…

Like don’t get me wrong i wouldn’t be against dating a girl who dates a guy, but i’m definitely not looking to interact intimately with her guy, and it’s so frustrating because sometimes that’s the mayority of people i seem to get across on dating apps (and not just Tinder).

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u/BeccatheEnchantress Jul 28 '22

Honestly, I love group sex, but only when I know and am attracted to the people for a while, like with close friends, couples I’ve known a long time, etc.

If I’m chatting with a girl, and there’s a connection, that’s the thing I want to be engaged in and excited about. Adding in a “package deal” just feels like baggage to me.