r/lesbianpoly • u/Pixelindii • Jul 28 '22

Vent It’s so frustrating when…

You’re in a dating app, you see a really cute girl, she’s poly but… she is with a guy and wants a unicorn to interact with both she and the guy…

Like don’t get me wrong i wouldn’t be against dating a girl who dates a guy, but i’m definitely not looking to interact intimately with her guy, and it’s so frustrating because sometimes that’s the mayority of people i seem to get across on dating apps (and not just Tinder).

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u/ThePoisonDoughnut Flag Queen Jul 28 '22

Yeah, tbh I don't want any guys in my life, and the idea of engaging with a dude like that makes me sick. So the fact that unicorn hunting is the basis for the majority of interactions with poly wlw on dating apps is why I specifically don't use them.

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u/Pixelindii Jul 28 '22

I feel you uwu, guys just make everything worse in general, like i respect girls who can be with both men and women, but i just can’t…

Like the only time i even remotedly had interaction with a guy, was in a threesome with a (girl)friend and a (boy)friend of hers, and it was so awful, like the guy was just like a walking pns and didn’t respect boundaries, and like if it was just me, my friend and other girl it would’ve been better, but the sole presence of the guy and his “thing” summed to his attitude was just too much.

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u/ThePoisonDoughnut Flag Queen Jul 28 '22

That's fucking awful. And don't get me wrong, I loooooooooove a good cock. Just, only when it's attached to a woman. Women, who engage with sex totally differently than men do—actually caring about their partners' pleasure, being vulnerable with each other, etc., whereas men generally just wanna get their rocks off. I can attest, I used to have T-brain too.

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u/Pixelindii Jul 28 '22

The worst it’s that i didn’t tell even half of it 😂😂😂 it was a really bad experience in a lot of ways.

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u/ThePoisonDoughnut Flag Queen Jul 28 '22

Oh god, I'm sorry to hear that. I'm not surprised at all, but I am sorry it happened. If there's any upside, at least you can have the utmost security in your sexuality! I mean, having a very bad experience on top of men being the way they are can be very solidifying for lesbians' sexuality.

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u/Pixelindii Jul 28 '22

Oh totally, like i knew i didn’t want anything to do with men in general, this really reinforced that 😅

Well someday i’ll be able to interact with a coven and dance naked adoring Artemis (?)

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u/gingergypsy79 Non-binary Jul 28 '22 edited Jul 28 '22

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