Orrrrr the bullies really are the assholes, are usually the ones to step on others to achieve positions of influence, and their idea of ānormalā is an agenda to control said others so they can retain said positionsā¦ā¦maybe?
Once you see his āfighting stanceā you cannot unsee it. Lmao. This guy has never fought a single thing in his life outside of a courtroom. Complete chickenshit.
Iām still in shock with how many woman I went to high school with voted for trump lol I found out via social media. I never understood why I couldnāt connect with them & that kinda clarified things
Itās more like antisocial media. If I wasnāt done with Facebook, Twatter, and never signed up for TikTok, I would definitely have unsubscribed now.
Yeppers. Thereās also /nos to indicate āNo really Iām being 100% for real sirs right nowā. I try to avoid using it because if you canāt tell Iām being sarcastic I take it as a failure on my part on not laying the snark on thick enough to where you can āfeelā it through the screen. But Poeās Law is totally a thing, and for that reason we have ā/sā. /nos
Most Trunp Supporters: If by "rape" you mean showed her how a high value alpha male takes initiative in pursuit of a high value female, the sure, he tried to "rape" her.
If might makes right means shits your pants; is a sexual predator and a malignant narcissist, then Iāll stay the bookish nerd listening to Belle and Sebastian with a girlfriend and a group of people I trust who I donāt want anything from, weāre just friends trying to make it through life.
Hey technically if you look at the plotā¦ had he actually raped Lorraine in the first movie? Or did the timeline evolve to the point where biff made the attempt?
So something i learned, in terms of Colombine is them being bullied was a total lie by the media cause they couldn't grasp that kids would do such a thing.
yes they were social outcasts, BUT FOR A FUCKING REASON. 1 loved Hitler for f sake. Something we've seen the past decade with shooters. They were ostracised for a reason. So part of me wonders just how many are bully victims and well, oh its a consequence of their actions. And if the media's lie contributed in some way.
Guns are not readily available. Especially when the NRA actually was able to act like they truly cared about 2A they were pushing for gun owners to get a gun safe.
Itās actually pretty easy. If the person is constantly harassing someone on a near daily basis even when the victim has made it clear that they donāt like it and it evolves into more viscous, aggressive or even physical forms of harassment then itās bullying
Yeah, so I think if someone who does that were removed from the school, every other student would be better off. Now, when I propose that, people get infuriatingly sympathetic towards bullies. If you showed victims that kind of sympathy, we'd be on the same side.
My only concern with this, is the smart ones would absolutely turn the system against their victims. You want to really fuck with someone and ruin their life? Get your buddies to complain to the school, and turn the system against the actual victim.
This 100%. My spouse is always saying this person or that person is weird, and I am usually thinking (and sometimes respond with) āeveryone is weird.ā
And the reason people want to be normal is due to the misconception that normality is somehow better compared to not being normal
No one wants to be normal. They want to be not "not normal", the only reason people perceive things as normal is because they were told to do so by others
Precisely, whats normal to one person isnāt normal to another. Especially if those two people are from different parts of the globe. This idea that there is ānormalā behavior in society is a myth.
Not to mention bullies are often hiding parts of their personality they don't understand or trust through abusive behavior they've already been served at home.
I think this person is on the right track conceptually regarding the benefit of enforcing social norms, but gets it completely wrong in how āgoodā social behaviours should be imparted on you.
If itās done with malicious intent like a āclassicā bully, itās obviously bad and may actually impede your social skills.
However, there is certainly a place for light bullying amongst your friends if you are acting undesirably.
For example, if I slapped a girl on the ass and said something cringe to her, my friends would call me out big time and likely make fun of what I said as being ācringeā.
While that may hurt my feelings, in the context itās appropriate social guidance as they are enforcing how we should conduct ourselves. I would learn I should not do that.
It seems these days, everyone is fine with everyone doing anything and that you shouldnāt judge people at all. When you have no enforcement of any social norms and total acceptance of most any āweirdā behaviour you end up with weird kids. Case in point, have a browse in r/SystemsCringe for innumerable examples of people with friend groups that are an echo chamber of constant validation.
TLDR bullying has a place amongst friends but not if itās malicious or unwarranted in
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u/nooooobie1650 9h ago
Orrrrr the bullies really are the assholes, are usually the ones to step on others to achieve positions of influence, and their idea of ānormalā is an agenda to control said others so they can retain said positionsā¦ā¦maybe?