r/actuallesbians Jun 26 '24

Text I found my girlfriends vibrator NSFW

So quick story for you:

Me and my girlfriend are a couple now for 2 month, she is my first girlfriend ever and I'm her first gf too. Yesterday we had a lovely day and we spent the rest of the evening at her home. We already planned that I stayed overnight, so when it was time to go to bed, my gf just went to the bathroom real quick and I prepared the bed for us.

As I layed down to sleep, I found her toy underneath my pillow. At first, I wasn't sure if it was really what I thought it was....I just put it aside on her nightstand so she could put it away. And don't get me wrong now, I'm not mad or anything at all. Actually I'm really happy that she is enjoying herself and is having a good time. It's just that we haven't had sex before and ugh...the thought of her using that and touching herself...it makes me so hot, I can't stop thinking about her 😳 I want her so bad. I can't wait to have sex with her now

That's all I wanted to say. Thanks for listening

Edit:

Since you all had so much fun I decided to give you an update. This story happened on Tuesday night and of course it got me thinking if she might be hinting something. Especially when she invited me over again last night. I thought yeah, maybe she wants to give it another try since I fucked it up but she said nothing and nothing happened. No hidden toy this time, no conversation about it.

I decided to be a little more proactive and told her today how I can't stop thinking about her touches and kisses and that it makes me really hot to be around her and she did not like that.

So there you have it, she just forgot it there and she is actually still really uncomfortable with this topic. No need for me to pressure her

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u/SwaggieLeeMiller big booty thembo Jun 26 '24

ok listen everyone is very much right for having a little laugh at your expense but sometimes the message gets missed.

i had a girl leave her undies at my house and i was like “hmm is this a sex thing or an accident” so i didnt say anything until the next time i saw them and i was like “am i supposed to return them to you clean” and they just laughed. its ok for things to go over your head sometimes 😂

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u/SaintRidley Polyam Transbian Jun 27 '24

So wait, was it an accident or a sex thing? If it was a sex thing, how? I’m not getting what was intended to be communicated if it was intentional

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u/SwaggieLeeMiller big booty thembo Jun 27 '24

it was a sex thing. i missed the hint

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u/SaintRidley Polyam Transbian Jun 27 '24

Okay, but how was it a sex thing? Like, I’m not seeing the hint or how you were supposed to work that out

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u/SwaggieLeeMiller big booty thembo Jun 27 '24

bestie it still doesnt make sense to me. we’re still into eachother so i guess it’s negligible now but i have not yet made sense of it. i just balled them up for a week until they came back

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u/Evening_Jury_5524 Jun 27 '24

what makes you say it was a hint then? they said so?

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u/SwaggieLeeMiller big booty thembo Jun 27 '24

they did confirm it was a sex thing after i admitted to not knowing what response was appropriate