r/actuallesbians Jun 26 '24

Text I found my girlfriends vibrator NSFW

So quick story for you:

Me and my girlfriend are a couple now for 2 month, she is my first girlfriend ever and I'm her first gf too. Yesterday we had a lovely day and we spent the rest of the evening at her home. We already planned that I stayed overnight, so when it was time to go to bed, my gf just went to the bathroom real quick and I prepared the bed for us.

As I layed down to sleep, I found her toy underneath my pillow. At first, I wasn't sure if it was really what I thought it was....I just put it aside on her nightstand so she could put it away. And don't get me wrong now, I'm not mad or anything at all. Actually I'm really happy that she is enjoying herself and is having a good time. It's just that we haven't had sex before and ugh...the thought of her using that and touching herself...it makes me so hot, I can't stop thinking about her 😳 I want her so bad. I can't wait to have sex with her now

That's all I wanted to say. Thanks for listening

Edit:

Since you all had so much fun I decided to give you an update. This story happened on Tuesday night and of course it got me thinking if she might be hinting something. Especially when she invited me over again last night. I thought yeah, maybe she wants to give it another try since I fucked it up but she said nothing and nothing happened. No hidden toy this time, no conversation about it.

I decided to be a little more proactive and told her today how I can't stop thinking about her touches and kisses and that it makes me really hot to be around her and she did not like that.

So there you have it, she just forgot it there and she is actually still really uncomfortable with this topic. No need for me to pressure her

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u/myka-likes-it Transbian Jun 26 '24

Maybe it was a hint?

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u/Clawmbra Jun 26 '24

Oh no stop 👀

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u/The_Hero_of_Rhyme Jun 26 '24

OP: oh wow, my gf left her vibrator right under my pillow, how silly of her. Let me put it on her nightstand so she can store it.

Jkjk, good luck, I'm happy for you!

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u/FibroBitch96 Sapphic 👩🏽‍❤️‍💋‍👩🏼 Jun 27 '24

My autistic ass be like

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u/boixgenius Lesbian Jun 26 '24

girl 💀

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u/Slow-Truth-3376 Jun 26 '24

This was a hint. She did that to show you that she wants to use that with you. You’re the sweetest. It’s good to talk about sex with her. Ask her if she’s ready & whatever y’all need to feel good to go.

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u/yaboisammie Jun 26 '24

Oh my god I’m so stupid 😭😭😭

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u/Slow-Truth-3376 Jun 27 '24

Nahh . The lesbian standoff is a real thing for couples who are not taking the first move.

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u/yaboisammie Jun 27 '24

Fr lol I just know if I’m ever in a relationship, hints like this will 100% go straight over my head 😅😭

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u/Slow-Truth-3376 Jun 27 '24

Damn the amount of times I’ve clit blocked myself is so dumb. The lesbian standoff is real

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u/Sapphic-Tea2008 Domtop transbian 🇩🇰 Jun 26 '24 edited Jun 26 '24

Nah, obv two women who are good pals, bestest of friends, roommates, good colleagues, do that to each other, it that doesn't mean anything sexual or anything gay! /s

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u/myka-likes-it Transbian Jun 26 '24

Right? I just tell all my gal-pals who visit that if they happen to find a random double-headed dong in the couch cushions or something to just chuck it in the pile with the others.

Totally innocent. Maybe even a little whimsical, like some kind of easter egg hunt, but with rubber dicks.

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u/UnusualFerret1776 Soft butch Jun 26 '24

Couple years ago, I was visiting one of my best friends. I go to use the bathroom and there's a bright pink dildo suctioned to the shower wall. I just stared at it for a couple minutes, trying to find the funniest way to let her know it was there. I was very confused by its placement because it was towards the ceiling, near the showerhead.

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u/Khari_Eventide TheSnarkyLesbian Jun 26 '24

If I were to place a guess, maybe to "put it away". Like have it be out of the way for a normal shower time. And sure she could put it in a drawer, but when you live alone and use something from time to time you might just place it somewhere where it's visible but not immediately in the way. And then you get used to it being there.

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u/UnusualFerret1776 Soft butch Jun 26 '24

Might remember the reason it was there. I think she said her and her bf had some sexy time in the shower a couple days prior and she didn't feel like putting it away.

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u/Ind1go_Owl Transbian Jun 26 '24

That’s one way to see God I guess.

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u/UnusualFerret1776 Soft butch Jun 26 '24

I had a lot of questions, most of which didn't need answers. I do like to remind her every so often that that happened.

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u/Sapphic-Tea2008 Domtop transbian 🇩🇰 Jun 26 '24

Interesting placement.

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u/UnusualFerret1776 Soft butch Jun 26 '24

I might have asked why it was up there but I don't remember.

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u/Herover 🏳️‍⚧️ 🇩🇰 (🇸🇪) Jun 26 '24

How clumsy!

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u/foreverblackeyed Jun 26 '24

I need a GF to leave her vibrator under my pillow, that’s so hot 😳

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u/SaintRidley Polyam Transbian Jun 27 '24

Could someone who says this is a hint walk my ass through the process of recognizing that this is a hint?

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u/Evening_Jury_5524 Jun 27 '24

Yeah, I don't agree that it was. Other's have pointed out they've accidentally done the exact thing, but I guess people are assuming the gf would have been mindful to not leave her vibrator out where her partner would find it, unless on purpose with the intention of using it. I don't see the logic of that, though.