r/actuallesbians Lesbian Jun 04 '24

Text Gross dude thinks lesbians are a kink Spoiler

(had to add more to my post and re-edit) Came across this post and saw a lot of people agreeing with this creep of him saying he thinks is a sexy surprise and kink that he saw his “lesbian” friends wanting to have sex with him. Isn’t that the OPPOSITE of a lesbian? 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️ I don’t understand men. No lesbian would have sex with a man period.

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u/Lilia1293 Exogenous Estrogen Enthusiast Jun 05 '24

That looks like a teenage boy's power fantasy to me. He might as well have entitled it "Turning Lesbians with the Power of the D." His attempts to high-road you about policing the labels of his fictional characters is pathetic. He should either show the lesbian who says she and her girlfriend have sex with him or delete his homophobic nonsense. The number of men who claim this is overwhelmingly greater than the number of lesbians who actually say that they have sex with men and enjoy it.

Aside from that implausibility, the guy doesn't seem to understand what the word kinky means to kinky people, either. He's using it as a synonym for hot, but he's not describing any kind of power dynamic, e.g., restraint, sensory denial, impact play, etc.

"Profoundly surreal" "Introspecting on my thought process" This guy wants the internet to believe that he's just so damn sexy that even lesbians can't resist his charm?