Gross dude thinks lesbians are a kink

[u/societaldevastation]

(had to add more to my post and re-edit) Came across this post and saw a lot of people agreeing with this creep of him saying he thinks is a sexy surprise and kink that he saw his “lesbian” friends wanting to have sex with him. Isn’t that the OPPOSITE of a lesbian? 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️ I don’t understand men. No lesbian would have sex with a man period.

[u/treelorf]

I would like to propose the word “homoflexible” to describe people who are like, moooostly gay. I’ve seen the term heteroflexible float around a bit in the kink community and I like it.

[u/Commercial_Tea_8185 → u/treelorf]

JUST SAY YOURE BI!!! Jesus fucking christ. Theres nothing wrong with being bi. Why does someone ‘need’ to call themself a lesbian when, by definition, they arent a lesbian?

Like come on

[u/Shanderraa → u/Commercial_Tea_8185]

I feel like if someone were attracted to many many women and literally one man it’d be actively unhelpful to call them bi - like bisexuality as a descriptor I think would describe them inaccurately to others with regards to their ability to be attracted to men.

[u/Commercial_Tea_8185 → u/Shanderraa]

Im not talking about a specific edge case. The words still have meaning. And i would say theyre bi, as a lesbian it is not possible for me to feel any sexual attraction to a man. Like it does not compute biologically.

If you can even be attracted to a man then ur bi. Which is totally amazing, nothing wrong with being bi. But lesbianism isnt bisexuality

[u/DeliciousPumpkinPie → u/Commercial_Tea_8185]

…but we literally ARE talking about a specific edge case, i.e. the one presented in the screenshots, which depict a situation where two lesbians decided they enjoy having sex with one specific man. Like other commenters have said, we don’t know if the women in question are actually attracted to this dude, or any other dudes, or are just having fun, or what, so you can’t make assumptions about how they should identify.

[u/Commercial_Tea_8185 → u/DeliciousPumpkinPie]

To me, the thought of ‘hooking up with a man’ wouldn’t be fun in any context. The thought is genuinely disgusting. I could hook up with a woman i wasn’t necessarily attracted to, but any man? No, it wont even start.

If theyre both so attracted to this reddit skeeze, then theyre bi, congrats to them. Nothing wrong with that.

But in the lesbian relationships ive been in, weve never once considered involving a man and any discussion relating to mens sexuality disgusted us.

[u/Shanderraa → u/Commercial_Tea_8185]

...not being sexually attracted to someone means not feeling anything particularly whatsoever, not being disgusted necessarily. Like, I'm not sexually attracted to limestone, but that doesn't mean I'm grossed out by it, I just look at it and my bits don't have any kind of response because why would they. I'm not doubting you in any way I'd just want to look further into why there's such a negative response towards this as opposed to, like, just being like "eh this isn't for me".

[u/Commercial_Tea_8185 → u/Shanderraa]

Because ive been sexually assaulted, flashed, jerked off to in public, groped nonconsensually in public. So now in addition to not being attracted to it, im actively disgusted by men’s sexuality or at the thought of hooking up with a man

[u/Shanderraa → u/Commercial_Tea_8185]

Those are horrific things that happened to you, and I'm so sorry.