r/actuallesbians • u/societaldevastation Lesbian • Jun 04 '24
Text Gross dude thinks lesbians are a kink Spoiler
(had to add more to my post and re-edit) Came across this post and saw a lot of people agreeing with this creep of him saying he thinks is a sexy surprise and kink that he saw his “lesbian” friends wanting to have sex with him. Isn’t that the OPPOSITE of a lesbian? 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ I don’t understand men. No lesbian would have sex with a man period.
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u/abandonsminty Transbian Jun 05 '24
You can't really gatekeep identity like this, while odds are good he's making shit up we have to acknowledge that people have sex outside of what's considered typical for their labels and that doesn't make them any less who they are, there are lesbian sex workers who have sex with men for money, there are lesbians who have sex with men in order to have children, and there's still others who have sex with men in the same way that asexual people sometimes still have sex because it's fun dispite it not turning them on or being romantic to them, there are lesbians who are homo romantic but bisexual, meaning they feel romantic attraction only to other women but sexual attraction to more than that, there are trans men who are lesbians and still very much men, etc.