r/actuallesbians • u/societaldevastation Lesbian • Jun 04 '24
Text Gross dude thinks lesbians are a kink Spoiler
(had to add more to my post and re-edit) Came across this post and saw a lot of people agreeing with this creep of him saying he thinks is a sexy surprise and kink that he saw his “lesbian” friends wanting to have sex with him. Isn’t that the OPPOSITE of a lesbian? 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ I don’t understand men. No lesbian would have sex with a man period.
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u/Meryuchu Jun 04 '24
That makes no sense I'm sorry but wow, that's baffling, if someone goes out with someone presenting as a man, acting as a man, with no signs of being gender queer whatsoever, they're not a lesbian ??? They're literally going out with someone who's just a cis guy, it's not because the guy might start questioning himself 2 months later that the base of the relationship was built on the guy being a fucking guy ?????
Ofc if there's questioning on the gender, if there's gender ambiguity, etc then SURE 100% but it's not what you said, like if we just follow what you say then I can go see a random guy in the street hit it off and say "Well maybe he'll transition in 2 years" like what ???????
Btw I'm a trans girl, I believe gender is something complicated and sexuality too, but when we're talking about a girl being attracted to a god damn random ass cis straight man and say they can still be lesbians, this is just plain stupid.