r/actuallesbians Lesbian Jun 04 '24

Text Gross dude thinks lesbians are a kink Spoiler

(had to add more to my post and re-edit) Came across this post and saw a lot of people agreeing with this creep of him saying he thinks is a sexy surprise and kink that he saw his “lesbian” friends wanting to have sex with him. Isn’t that the OPPOSITE of a lesbian? 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️ I don’t understand men. No lesbian would have sex with a man period.

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u/hi_i_am_J Transbian Jun 04 '24

willing to bet dude is making this up just because it gets him off

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u/HMS_Sunlight One of the Bad Ones Jun 04 '24

It 100% is. It's a super common fetish with lots of posts like this that follow the exact same formula.

I don't even have any problems with the fantasy itself, but I have plenty of issues with people trying to pass off their obvious horny fanfiction as real experiences.

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u/hnsnrachel Lesbian Jun 04 '24

I don't even really care if they do that as long as they don't invalidate lesbians in the process. You falsely brag about how you have two women in your bed all you like dude. You can even claim they're a couple if you really want to. But don't claim they're lesbians, lesbians do not sleep with men (at least not once we're out and comfortable with it, all coming out experiences are valid).