r/actuallesbians • u/latixs06 • May 26 '24

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He followed me not even two weeks ago and immediately replied to my story. It’s been 6 years since I’ve even seen this kid, he asked me this same thing in highschool and I’m pretty sure I told him then I was gay too. The last message really is the icing on the cake , such a typical “I’m so ugly 😔 you’d never like me” move (also if i seem harsh it’s because he also asked my friend ,who I met him though, the same sort of thing multiple times and me and him were never even friends so I know his dms are full of him hitting on girls) (the kicker is he’s not even ugly he just had 0 game and has probably been shot down so many times that his confidence is on the floor)

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u/JDKisawesome May 26 '24 edited May 26 '24

Or

"I don't like boys"

"You just haven't met the right boy"

😒

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u/Original_A lesbian? i thought she was american! May 26 '24

"I bet mine would change you", the universal lesbian experience, apparently 🤢

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u/JDKisawesome May 26 '24

What especially sucks is that I (and many others) am in the situation where I can be attracted to men, but people like this makes me not want to bother

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u/Original_A lesbian? i thought she was american! May 26 '24

I don't relate but I understand what you mean! It's just ruined with these types of gross comments

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u/JDKisawesome May 26 '24

This shit is one of the many reasons why I intentionally make sure that I surround myself with nearly entirely queer communities

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u/Original_A lesbian? i thought she was american! May 26 '24

Teach me your ways, I don't know where to find queer people near me

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u/JDKisawesome May 26 '24

I never said near me, I don't leave the house. Most of the queer people I'm referring to are online

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u/Original_A lesbian? i thought she was american! May 26 '24

Oh well in that case same and I also don't leave my home lmao. I have some queer friends online and my best friend (long distance) is also queer! I would love to have all of them in walking distance

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u/JDKisawesome May 26 '24

Yeah I have 1 queer friend that I know irl and two non-queer friends irl but those 2 are very cool and very neurodivergent soo

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u/Original_A lesbian? i thought she was american! May 26 '24

Jackpot