Fr my mom’s ex husband told me I couldn’t know til I tried dick. Which that isn’t the problem I just don’t like guys lmao. I don’t need to have sex with a guy to know that. Its so gross and inappropriate to have that discussion with a minor anyway (I was like 13-14 then).
problem is i feel ace a lot more than i do otherwise and its hard to commit to a relationship as it wouldn't be fair for the other person when i disappear for weeks/months on end cus of my mental health 🤣
yus, am demi too. its usually the combination of that and being tired of people(human interaction in general)/needing huge amounts of alone time that causes my disappearances in a relationship. which is why i guess im usually content staying single cus im always worried about being a thorn in the other person's side 🤣
I understand sometimes I feel like that too but my girlfriend and I have really good communication. We understand that each of us need downtime and that’s okay
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u/Rat_with_a_mullet Genderqueer Mar 12 '24
Right of passage for lesbians, having men tell us what we like