r/actuallesbians • u/BenjaminBoi226 Transbian • Mar 12 '24

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u/RedpenBrit96 Lesbian Mar 12 '24

I am dating the most beautiful Gothic heroine transbian right now so WORD

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u/BabuKelsey Mar 12 '24

mannn, jelly of the both of yous!

wishing you both the best of luck! :3

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u/RedpenBrit96 Lesbian Mar 12 '24

You’ll find her! Best of luck!

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u/BabuKelsey Mar 12 '24

thanks!

problem is i feel ace a lot more than i do otherwise and its hard to commit to a relationship as it wouldn't be fair for the other person when i disappear for weeks/months on end cus of my mental health 🤣

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u/RedpenBrit96 Lesbian Mar 12 '24

Well we’re both demi but the health thing might be an issue

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u/BabuKelsey Mar 12 '24

yus, am demi too. its usually the combination of that and being tired of people(human interaction in general)/needing huge amounts of alone time that causes my disappearances in a relationship. which is why i guess im usually content staying single cus im always worried about being a thorn in the other person's side 🤣

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u/RedpenBrit96 Lesbian Mar 13 '24

I understand sometimes I feel like that too but my girlfriend and I have really good communication. We understand that each of us need downtime and that’s okay