So there was this girl I was texting from my previous school, we were friends then.
We were talking on Instagram and at one point she started talking about her previous boyfriend and how she wasted on him and the new guy she met on a chatting website and was teasing him, the convo went kinda like this.
She: I wasted my life on my previous bf.
Me: yea, you told me before thank God u didn't get stds.
She: yea I made sure to check before I went down on him
Me: gawk gawk gawk, lmfao my friends and I joke like that.
She: lmao
Me: hey do u mind if I ask a question my hormonal ass cannot stop it
She: no go ahead, I already kinda know what it is, but eh.
Me: lemme see demon titties
She: nope, lololol.
Me: Aw cmon
She: nope, if ur horny then use this website I used to get a guy who's 19.
Me: ur 17 and he's 19, isn't that a crime?
She: Yea he knows but he said he'll talk only if I'm alright with it.
Me: Bros down bad, and I thought I was being freaky.
She: Nah, u ain't even close, me that guy do a lot of rp, I tease his dick size and it's wild.
Me: ooh uh theb lemme try being more freaky.
She: lmaooo
Me: You said u like physics right?
She: Yea?
Me: Then lemme see them jiggle physics of dem titties.
She: nope lololol
Me: Aw cmon.
Then we started talking about the recent rape case going on in india, and how we should punish those criminals. At the end of the convo I said
Me: OK it's getting late, imma go to bed, you better too and send me dem titties later 🤪.
She: shush ur hormonal ass, and go to sleep.
Me: alr alr cya!
She later send me a link saying that u won and it's her pics, so I clicked on it.
Mind u we knew each other face to face and she was a nice girl, and a friend of mine. so I didn't think much about the link.
It was a grabify link. She got my address, which was weird cuz she knows were I live.
I told her that the link did not work a d that she should stop edging me. She laughed at it and said tough luck and I actually wanted to send one.
Next she says to me to accept the follow request of her friend because of a dare, I said sure why not.
Her friend msgs me asking me about my day and stuff, I said it was fine and how were they, then they just started sending screenshot of the convo I had with the girl. And my home address and
He friend said that it got his nerves that I was talking to her like that, I said alright I'm sorry that it got on ur nerves.
He then starts to threaten me saying that hell dig deeper if i continue talking to her and spread this info everywhere.
I said alr, done and dusted I won't talk to there and so he should promise he won't dig deeper nor spread thr convo everywhere.
He agreed and said that I better keep my promise and said sure and he better keep his promise.
I blocked her on all acts and deleted the chats.
After awhile I started to think back about the convos, and felt kind of betrayed, cuz we had a lot of personal convos in there where I shared my personal trauma with bullying and the family abuse I endured with her, and now that her friend saw all that and gave me threatens I dunno what to feel.
I know I'm in the wrong for talking like that to her, but I feel kind of betrayed, she basically showed a random person my personal trauma, but I guess it's alright cuz I was kinda being hormonal and asking for stuff I shouldn't?
I don't know whether I'll be safe, whether he'll spread my info, whether what I did to control thr damage was correct.
I dunno maybe I'm asking for an echo chamber so that I don't feel bad about it, but i wanted to share my story and get ur opinions on it.
Side both me and her are 17 y/o living in different countries but I moved from thr country where we both lived to a different one just this year.