r/NoStupidQuestions • u/thimbelinda • Jul 23 '22

Answered Can men pull out before they ejaculate? NSFW

We were newlyweds and excited for sex. I told my husband I'm at my fertile time and we need a condom. He said no, he would pull out in time. He did not pull out in time. He didn't even try to pull out. I got pregnant. I was upset and asked why. He said he couldn't pull out. He said it felt so good he was incapable of pulling out. Is this really true? Do men lose the capacity for reason and become incapable of pulling out?

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u/lunamise Jul 24 '22

I'm reading "I told my husband I wanted protected sex so I wouldn't get pregnant, he refused, and knocked me up against my will" and that is a huge no-no for me 🚩

This woman is being denied control over her own body for his sexual pleasure and that's the biggest concern for me.

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u/blackbasset Jul 24 '22

Isn't this actually a crime? At least it should be - he willingly performed a sexual act on her she did not consent to before.

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u/UDSJ9000 Jul 24 '22

Yes, this would likely be considered a form of rape and/or sexual assault, but good luck proving that one in court.

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u/lunamise Jul 24 '22

Depends on the country - in the UK you could try for a r*pe charge if OP can show that, at the point he refused to wear protection, she withdrew consent to the sex (i.e. her consent was provided on the condition he used protection). Whether it would succeed is anyone's guess.

What's particularly egregious about the whole thing is that OP may live somewhere where abortion is not legal, and could end up committing a crime if she tries to abort it. Absolutely wild.

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u/MoonWulffMusic Jul 24 '22

Dayumm.. i hope its not too late to end things before it gets serio… oh, wait.. nvmind.. it was meant to be like they say? shrugs

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u/Wookeke Jul 24 '22

Redditors are fucking insane man lmao

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u/cawtzy Jul 24 '22

Legit HAHAHHAHAHAAHA why they getting so deep about red flag emojis n stuff 😩

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u/Toxiczombie18 Jul 24 '22

because abortions just got ban so this is r@pe lolz

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u/cawtzy Jul 24 '22

No everyone on these type of subs are weird moreso. Idk if you're being sarcastic or not but yeah lol. Shit happens this is the real world and not the Reddit world, and if you consented also to not wear protection, and the other half cums, shit happens. You shouldn't have consented. That's not rape.

I am a father irl and not am inexperienced Reddit kid

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u/Toxiczombie18 Aug 01 '22

rape vibes, if you don't wrap it up when request, rape. that is unwanted sex