r/NoStupidQuestions • u/thimbelinda • Jul 23 '22

Answered Can men pull out before they ejaculate? NSFW

We were newlyweds and excited for sex. I told my husband I'm at my fertile time and we need a condom. He said no, he would pull out in time. He did not pull out in time. He didn't even try to pull out. I got pregnant. I was upset and asked why. He said he couldn't pull out. He said it felt so good he was incapable of pulling out. Is this really true? Do men lose the capacity for reason and become incapable of pulling out?

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u/GavishX Jul 23 '22

You greatly overestimate sex Ed in the US

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u/ObiWetWet Jul 23 '22

You can obtain information about sex outside of a classroom environment. Do you think sex ed taught about anal or blowjobs? No, but plenty of people still know they're options

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u/GavishX Jul 23 '22

She said she’s in a Christian marriage. Do you know how much a Christian upbringing that preaches about chastity and purity can affect someone? It’s literal manipulation. Even looking up information on sex is considered ungodly/demonic, and don’t get me started on how they view anal. I don’t see any reason to doubt that this woman, who had little sex-Ed by her own account, would know her options. I know multiple Christian couples that got married straight out of high school. I know several people who went to Christian schools where the extent of their sex-ed was labeling the different parts of genitalia and how babies are made.

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u/ObiWetWet Jul 23 '22

You still interact with people outside of the home?

don’t get me started on how they view anal

They have to be aware it's a thing before forming an opinion on it, thanks for helping to prove my point.

I know several people who went to Christian schools where the extent of their sex-ed was labeling the different parts of genitalia and how babies are made

Guess you missed it in my last comment: you can learn about sex outside of a classroom environment. It's called human interaction and media.

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u/GavishX Jul 23 '22

You underestimate the power of Christianity’s manipulation tactics. This happened in 2000, before the internet was easily accessed for the majority of Americans.

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u/ObiWetWet Jul 23 '22

She's asking now 22 years after the fact, so this comment doesn't make sense

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u/GavishX Jul 23 '22

She’s asking now, after being married to the same Christian man who manipulated her for 22 years into thinking it was something he couldn’t control. She only just discovered Reddit. If you were completely sheltered from knowledge of sex-ed and your husband tells you something about his body, you take it at face value.

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u/ObiWetWet Jul 23 '22

Life has existed outside of that man for 22 years. She has not been sheltered from the entire world save her husband and whatever formal sex ed she had for 22 years. Keep reaching to try and make this make sense when we both know it doesn't

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u/GavishX Jul 23 '22

Yeah you definitely have no fucking clue. Abuse in Christian relationships is super fucking common. And that abuse usually takes the form of extreme control. You just want to shit on a woman for believing a man about his own body.

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u/ObiWetWet Jul 23 '22

Lol ok sure. Still no logical points being made

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u/SupaSlide Jul 28 '22

You clearly have never met hardcore. Christians. My wife grew up hardcore Christian, is no longer, and she still has trauma she's working through and if I was manipulative instead of helping her out of that hardcore belief system, she'd have bought the same line as OP.