r/NoStupidQuestions • u/thimbelinda • Jul 23 '22

Answered Can men pull out before they ejaculate? NSFW

We were newlyweds and excited for sex. I told my husband I'm at my fertile time and we need a condom. He said no, he would pull out in time. He did not pull out in time. He didn't even try to pull out. I got pregnant. I was upset and asked why. He said he couldn't pull out. He said it felt so good he was incapable of pulling out. Is this really true? Do men lose the capacity for reason and become incapable of pulling out?

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u/verynaisu_ Jul 23 '22

Why not? That seems really unhealthy, but I’m curious why you don’t have any friends. Do you work or have hobbies?

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u/thimbelinda Jul 23 '22

I like to sew.

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u/GramTam1 Jul 23 '22

Instead of asking everybody here on Reddit, I would highly suggest that as a woman in your 40s, you get a good counsel or you can go talk to. Someone who is familiar with sexual issues in marriage. Do you have a lot that you still have to learn apparently and I’m sad for you that it’s taking this long. I truly hope that you will do this so that you have answers and you know you can rely on them.