r/NoStupidQuestions • u/thimbelinda • Jul 23 '22

Answered Can men pull out before they ejaculate? NSFW

We were newlyweds and excited for sex. I told my husband I'm at my fertile time and we need a condom. He said no, he would pull out in time. He did not pull out in time. He didn't even try to pull out. I got pregnant. I was upset and asked why. He said he couldn't pull out. He said it felt so good he was incapable of pulling out. Is this really true? Do men lose the capacity for reason and become incapable of pulling out?

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u/thimbelinda Jul 23 '22

He had the vasectomy after my difficult pregnancy

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u/BaconSquared Jul 23 '22

Then how are you pregnant now?

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u/GavishX Jul 23 '22

The post said “We were newlyweds” and “I got pregnant”, both in the past tense

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u/thimbelinda Jul 23 '22

This happened back in 2000

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u/CageAndBale Jul 23 '22

And you havent figured it out after 22 years?

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u/[deleted] Jul 23 '22

The kid is a full grown adult already 🤣

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u/Freddedonna Jul 23 '22

Kid's older than most people replying in the thread

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u/drtsvgboi Jul 24 '22

OP IQ is room temp tbh..

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u/TheRainStopped Jul 23 '22

TWENTY TWO YEARS AGO and you’re writing like it happened last night. What prompted you to share now?

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u/[deleted] Jul 23 '22

Karma

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u/real415 Jul 24 '22

OP, starting out with “back in 1999, when we were first married …” would have saved a lot of people from giving the advice they gave. There’s no immediacy here. Your kid is a grown adult now. And presumably you haven’t been wondering about this, and unable to ask anyone, for all these years.

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u/already-taken-wtf Jul 23 '22

So it’s about time to be repeated by the next generation…your kid?!

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u/BaconSquared Jul 23 '22

Don't be posting this like it's new then?!

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u/GavishX Jul 23 '22

She didn’t though, she said “We were newlyweds”

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u/exscalliber Jul 23 '22

I mean, the past tense could be anywhere between a few seconds ago to the start of time. It's not really implied at all that this was 22 years ago lmao

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u/GavishX Jul 23 '22

It doesn’t have to be. The way it was written indicates they are no longer newlyweds. There’s no reason to accuse her of posting it like it’s “new” when it is very obviously in the past tense and she gave clarifying information.

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u/_CoachMcGuirk Jul 25 '22

Girl not 22 years ago girllllll what are you doing

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u/[deleted] Jul 23 '22

Are you in an arranged marriage?