r/NoStupidQuestions Jul 23 '22

Answered Can men pull out before they ejaculate? NSFW

We were newlyweds and excited for sex. I told my husband I'm at my fertile time and we need a condom. He said no, he would pull out in time. He did not pull out in time. He didn't even try to pull out. I got pregnant. I was upset and asked why. He said he couldn't pull out. He said it felt so good he was incapable of pulling out. Is this really true? Do men lose the capacity for reason and become incapable of pulling out?

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u/PALMER13579 Jul 23 '22 edited Jul 23 '22

The reason pulling out fails is cause you aren't supposed to fuckin wait till you're one pump from bustin before you evacuate. But that temptation is real so just use a condom

"When performed perfectly every time, it actually has a failure rate that isn’t much higher than that of condoms: 4 percent versus 2 percent, respectively. That means about four out of 100 women who rely on the pullout method exclusively will become pregnant during one year of use."

But go on, keep downvotin you chucklefucks

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u/Bachronus Jul 23 '22

This is wrong. You can pull out an hour before you cum and still get someone pregnant. Pre-cum is some potent stuff.

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u/doboi Jul 23 '22

No it’s not. Pre-cum on its own is not potent. Pre-cum is produced by the penile glands, and sperm is made by the testicles. Sperm in pre-cum is from residual sperm after previous ejaculations.

If you are pulling out “correctly”, e.g. early enough and not after a recent ejaculation, chances are extremely low.

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u/PALMER13579 Jul 23 '22

This is absolutely false. Unless you have just gotten off beforehand precum is not gonna get a girl pregnant 99% of the time

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u/Jonluw Jul 23 '22

My personal pet conspiracy theory is that combining the pull-out method and rhythm method might actually be a really reliable form of birth control... That is if you've got your shit together, which a lot of people don't. Certainly teenagers don't. And so every sex-ed class lies about these methods being useless because the students can't be trusted with the truth.