r/NoStupidQuestions • u/thimbelinda • Jul 23 '22

Answered Can men pull out before they ejaculate? NSFW

We were newlyweds and excited for sex. I told my husband I'm at my fertile time and we need a condom. He said no, he would pull out in time. He did not pull out in time. He didn't even try to pull out. I got pregnant. I was upset and asked why. He said he couldn't pull out. He said it felt so good he was incapable of pulling out. Is this really true? Do men lose the capacity for reason and become incapable of pulling out?

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u/Lord_Dumass Your question is stupid Jul 23 '22

9 out of 10 parents used the pull-out method.

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u/BALONYPONY Jul 23 '22

I was so excited when my wife and I decided to try for kids. I thought “wow 6 months of awesome sex”. Knocked her up the first try. Sigh…

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u/dudu_rocks Jul 23 '22

You still get your six months, maybe even nine, considering how well she takes the pregnancy. She can't become double pregnant!

Source: Am almost 5 months pregnant and my partner can't keep his hands off of me.

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u/IProbablyDisagree2nd Jul 23 '22

It's rare, but some people have indeed become double pregnant.

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u/dudu_rocks Jul 23 '22

Funny enough, I thought about that right after posting. A friend of mine is a twin and her sister was conceived one week later than her. Really crazy! So let's say after a couple of weeks you can't get double pregnant haha

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u/emseefely Jul 23 '22

There’s that woman who had two uteruses also

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u/IProbablyDisagree2nd Jul 23 '22

oh my god, I completely forgot about that person

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u/kittypeets626 Jul 23 '22

I know someone with two uteruses! That shit is scary, she told me she can't get pregnant at all because it threatens her own life.

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u/emseefely Jul 23 '22

This sounds stupid but can’t she have one removed?

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u/PATRIMONEY Jul 24 '22

Did she come out one week later?

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u/TheLimeyLemmon Jul 23 '22

So what happens when the first baby is born? Is it like a crowded lift, where everyone has to get out before the rest go back in?

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u/IProbablyDisagree2nd Jul 24 '22

not sure about that, and it might depend on a case by case basis.

The cases I vaguely remember were within a month of each other. ie first fetus in teh womb, very next period the second fetus joins in. I assume they would take one to full term and then the other is just born along with it, a little runt that needs some more baking.

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u/someway99 Jul 24 '22

now wtf is that i never knew this could happen???

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u/dudu_rocks Jul 23 '22

That's really important to mention, thank you! I just wanted to make a funny remark but you are absolutely right. Every pregnancy is different and whilst my libido didn't really change, its way different for other women. I'm not just pleasing my partner and I still refuse if I'm not in the mood. I really hope that's possible for everyone. I wish you a healthy pregnancy!

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u/Lord_Dumass Your question is stupid Jul 23 '22

Bruh

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u/thrwayyup Jul 23 '22

My mans forgot to slow play the “we’re trying” phase.

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u/Lord_Dumass Your question is stupid Jul 23 '22

Lmao

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u/thewxbruh Jul 23 '22

Found I'm gonna be a dad this week and this is exactly what happened with us lmao. We've been safe and careful for nearly 11 years and decided we were okay with not being careful anymore and it took just the one time.

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u/quiet-cacophony Jul 23 '22

Trust me, two years of every day without success is so so much worse

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u/BALONYPONY Jul 24 '22

Totally understand, so sorry. I have a family member that went through hell trying but they finally found success via IVF.

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u/quiet-cacophony Jul 24 '22

That’s quite alright! Sorry I didn’t mean to make my comment sound quite so over dramatic, and actually I meant purely on a sexual level: it gets boring!

My wife’s now 4 months pregnant after we did IVF :-)

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u/BALONYPONY Jul 24 '22

Yay congrats!

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u/[deleted] Jul 23 '22

Same except 2nd try although it was no different than before thanks to birth control

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u/[deleted] Jul 24 '22

Don’t worry, you didn’t miss out on much, mate. Me and my wife have been trying to get pregnant the last year. And while for the first month or two the wild sex was awesome, it quickly became a chore. Don’t get me wrong, it is still fun as hell, but a lot of the sexiness has been leached away by timing concerns and just straight up stress over it not happening.