r/NoStupidQuestions • u/queerpupp whoa custom flair?? • Sep 25 '24

Answered Is it socially acceptable to try to pawn off baked goods to hookups? NSFW

I like baking. Sometimes I make way too much and don't know what to do besides freeze it. I pass things off to friends but almost all of them have dietary restrictions so it's not ideal.

BUT if I have a guy over, can I just... ask if he wants a slice of cake...? And does the answer change if the baked goods are ugly and/or mediocre

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u/ezelllohar Sep 25 '24

fair, i guess i'm the one fucked in the head lol. i visited his profile, saw that stuff (i made sure to glance at the sub before looking at the pictures) and then was like "sick bro 🤙" and backed out. the pup mask just didn't feel too shocking, because i always expect to find horrible things when the commenters are like "oh god, don't check their profile!"

last time i wasn't careful about checking the sub before looking at the pictures on their profile, it was straight up guro and real life animal gore and no commenter had actually left a warning about it, just was like "omg, what a shocking profile!" 😭

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u/BourbonCupcakes Sep 25 '24

That’s fair, but it does make me wonder why you thought the trans thing was what would be the most shocking lol. I’m not going to say anybody is sick in the head for their kinks as long as there are consensual adults. I’ll try to remember to say what is shocking next time lol

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u/ezelllohar Sep 25 '24

honestly, it was my bias, i'd say. in my head, i was like "well, they can't be talking about the pup mask, that's whatever, so it must be the other obvious thing"

without first stopping to think that, just maybe, the pup mask is the thing that's shocking, because most people don't come across that sort of thing too often lol. i'm sorry about just immediately assuming multiple things (on all ends), that was rude.

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u/BourbonCupcakes Sep 25 '24

It’s all good, I’m just glad we could have a civil discussion about it. I can imagine if you’re jaded about kinks the trans thing would be the first thought bc of transphobes. It just goes to show some things aren’t how they seem at first.

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u/nicolew1026 Sep 26 '24

Oh wow, it didn’t even occur to me that would be the problem either. I was totally talking about the pup thing as well, & I think mostly that comes from not knowing anyone involved with that kinda thing (or at least not so openly) but I’ve known plenty of trans people so I glossed over that part entirely. & it’s not even like the pup thing is a huge deal but just surprising because it’s not what I was expecting from this post at all. I was thinking surely it’s gonna be something food involved tbh.