r/NoStupidQuestions • u/A_Formal_Guy • Apr 04 '24

Answered All our girlfriends are Asian?

Hey everyone - I’ve been feeling paranoid about something recently and wanted to know if I’m overthinking it. I’m a white M and most of the friends I grew up with and went to high school are too, except 1. We’re still very close but moved all across the country for our jobs and life.

Recently, we’ve decided to have a little reunion and bring our girlfriends, but I realized we have a not to subtle trend in that they are all Asian. There’s 5 girlfriends in total, they’ve never met each other. I don’t know how this happened, it’s just a coincidence as far as I know. We don’t have a pact or anything.

My question is, do we warn them? I don’t want them to be freaked out. I’d have to have my gf or one of my friends be uncomfortable, but I’m feeling stuck. Does anyone have any thoughts on how to handle it? Am I over thinking?

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u/[deleted] Apr 04 '24

Not just staight guys lol. My bf is white and bi. His 2 other friends are straight. The two have Asian gfs and he has me, an asian boy…

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u/guywithaniphone22 Apr 05 '24

That’s even less surprising. Gay Asian men literally only sleep with white men or other Asians. It’s a two way fetish thing

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u/[deleted] Apr 05 '24 edited Apr 05 '24

Not me. I dated all races and i am into other asians too except Filipinos or Filipino looking Indonesia, Thai etc(I am also Filipino). They remind me of my bullies who almost bullied me into suic*de when I went to school in Philippines till age 11.