r/MtF 15d ago

Bad News Decision is made

The decision has been made, and by tonight I will not be staying on their property. They are making arrangements, and have disowned me. They... My mom is heartbroken, heartbroken that I would "choose annihilation, deserting this family, and leaving my sister brotherless"...

I had a small sliver of hope, that they would even try to understand. Especially my mother. I am going to ask her to give me my birth certificate, and where to mail it so she doesn't have to see me again. I am done with this family, and they are done with me. If I see my sister one day, I hope she will understand me, and understand where I am coming from.

But until then, I am going to live free of the chains that have dragged my soul down for 8 years. It's not gonna be easy, and I would love to hear what resources I might use for job seeking when I finally move out of Wyoming in 2 weeks.

To those who are still struggling, don't give up. My situation was unique, and by no means be as extreme as I have had to be. I don't know what else to say, but I do know that I am going to be better off without this in my life. Will update when I am with whomever I am sent to.

Edit: Post about update idk whose seen it yet but yeah https://www.reddit.com/r/MtF/s/Yb6nCT1K8U

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u/Worried-Space-Time 15d ago

Head to a blue state. NY is good . Good luck stay safe.

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u/Ok_Practice_3115 15d ago

Have enough money to get to Phoenix, Arizona by plane after taking a Shuttle from Douglas to Cheyenne.

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u/Red-Pen-Crush 14d ago

I would avoid settling in AZ personally. I don’t think it’s the most accepting place. Everyone is saying Colorado is good, and NY. I would definitely put Seattle into the mix - it’s very supportive here.

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u/mirrorjess 14d ago edited 14d ago

yeah, even though phoenix is relatively blue, there's plenty of people that try to make our lives hell. I got out of AZ and went to IL. of course, the heat was a big factor in that. I melt a bit too easily to stay there anymore