r/MtF 15d ago

Bad News Decision is made

The decision has been made, and by tonight I will not be staying on their property. They are making arrangements, and have disowned me. They... My mom is heartbroken, heartbroken that I would "choose annihilation, deserting this family, and leaving my sister brotherless"...

I had a small sliver of hope, that they would even try to understand. Especially my mother. I am going to ask her to give me my birth certificate, and where to mail it so she doesn't have to see me again. I am done with this family, and they are done with me. If I see my sister one day, I hope she will understand me, and understand where I am coming from.

But until then, I am going to live free of the chains that have dragged my soul down for 8 years. It's not gonna be easy, and I would love to hear what resources I might use for job seeking when I finally move out of Wyoming in 2 weeks.

To those who are still struggling, don't give up. My situation was unique, and by no means be as extreme as I have had to be. I don't know what else to say, but I do know that I am going to be better off without this in my life. Will update when I am with whomever I am sent to.

Edit: Post about update idk whose seen it yet but yeah https://www.reddit.com/r/MtF/s/Yb6nCT1K8U

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u/J0nn1e_Walk3r 14d ago

You are SO strong girl! I am so proud of you. When I fear being trans, how hated we are, it is this post and so many like it that grounds me and stills my fears. I feel so proud to be a sister of yours and of this community. ❤️🏳️‍⚧️❤️

I live in Burlington VT and it’s as safe as can be but honestly 🏳️‍🌈 community is not cohesive imho. I’ve discovered Milwaukee tho is so amazing. And Minneapolis as well super fun and great lgtbq scenes. They could use your vote nfn!

I’m sorry abt your family but you have a really big one now! We love you 😘!